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I've been dating this guy for about 6 weeks. We've been on a date four times. They were all amazing dates. He has paid for all of them and they were not cheap dates. On our last date, we had sex. He sent me a text on Monday asking me to go out on a date again. We scheduled the date for tomorrow, Friday.
Hes a really cool guy. He's almost perfect in my eyes. He treats me really well. There's nothing to complain about how he's treating me. He's showing that he really likes me. He met my standards of who I like to date. Since he has paid for all our dates, I thought I would do something to chip in for the Friday date. I have never paid for dates before unless I'm in a relationship with the person I'm dating that's when I start paying. I bought two tickets to see a show for tomorrow. I told him about it and he was excited to see it. The location of the show is quite a bit distance from us and with traffic it would take us longer to get there. So he said he would rent a hotel and we can go dancing and get drinks after the show.
I started liking this guy alot and I don't want him to see me as a casual date only. I didn't ask for a relationship before because I wasn't sure if I wanted to be with him. I was having fun and it turned out I developed feelings for him. Anyway, I think I'm liking him more and more. He's a true gentleman and respects me. Should I have sex with him when I see him tomorrow if I want something serious with him? How do I communicate that I want more than what we have now? Thanks.
Well you already did so it's a little late now to wonder if you should hold out, isn't it? You're going to put out, then change your mind and make him wait so he'll want a relationship with you? That doesn't make any sense.
How old are you? I don't understand how a bunch of complete strangers can answer your question about sleeping with him. If you don't want him to think of you as casual then why agree to spending the night in a hotel with him? You've already had sex after a few weeks so why question now if you should have sex with him???
Are you seriously asking US if YOU should have sex with someone???
I guess I'm asking because I don't want it to be just about sex. Maybe some people have similar experience in the past. I could get learn some from it.
Once the kitty is out of the bag...... it's kinda hard to put it back.
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How old are you? I don't understand how a bunch of complete strangers can answer your question about sleeping with him. If you don't want him to think of you as casual then why agree to spending the night in a hotel with him? You've already had sex after a few weeks so why question now if you should have sex with him???
Omg. Yes! He has a great career. He's 5'11. He's very fit and attractive. Plus a great personality which alot of guys I've dated in the past didn't have. If you're asking if he met my standards, yes he did.
Well, in that case:
jk.
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