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Old 04-25-2013, 07:03 PM
 
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As far as approaching or chatting up a stranger in social settings, there's really only 2 rules: be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
CD women say that they could be attracted to a guy that's not necessarily attractive.
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Old 04-25-2013, 07:25 PM
 
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What they say and what they (generally) do are two entirely different things.
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Old 04-25-2013, 07:33 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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It was simply some advice on how to attract women. Chances are, that just like most women, who have yet to attract or seduce a single female in their lifetime, your view isnt all that important. On the other side of the coin, if a woman is wondering about how to attract or seduce a man, Id likely suggest for her to ask another woman, instead of pretending that I know anything about it. Hope this helps.
Quick to attack, aren't you? You made a few decent points, puppy boy.

Now don't be so defensive!
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Old 04-25-2013, 07:56 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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What they say and what they (generally) do are two entirely different things.
When deciding what they actually do, look at whom they choose to marry. You'll see a number of the women here are with overweight guys, average guys, not-attractive guys. Personality can, and many instances does, win.
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Old 04-28-2013, 01:05 AM
 
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Very true. Nobody want's to deal with someone who comes off as wanting a relationship- but the end result is everyone is unhappy. I can't count the number of times I've blown it since I've come to the States by being too direct. Even picking up the phone and setting up the next date is seen as coming on too strong, even if the first meeting went swimmingly, and she explicitly said so.
If you can't even call to plan the next date, then it's the wrong girl. If she's interested she WANTS that call.
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Old 04-28-2013, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Pa
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If you can't even call to plan the next date, then it's the wrong girl. If she's interested she WANTS that call.
Nah its anxiety. And yes if we like you we want the call.
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Old 04-29-2013, 06:34 AM
 
Location: Denver, Colorado
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What they say and what they (generally) do are two entirely different things.
I've heard a lot of baloney from women. Even hooey.
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Old 04-30-2013, 01:15 AM
 
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I've heard a lot of baloney from women. Even hooey.
and some malarky
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