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Originally Posted by lilyflower3191981
lol Sorry, I have to laugh. I highly doubt this so called hot Italian can get any girls he wants. Some girls don't like Italians, just saying.
“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”
― Maya Angelou
You need to move on now.
Perfect quote. You know who this guy is. If you stay, this treatment will continue without ceasing. Is having someone in your life worth taking a lot of this treatment?
It's obvious that you have some insecurities which is why you listened to this man in the first place. But honey, you shouldn't feel that way about yourself - most men love accents on women - especially an Asian accent on a woman. It's like music to their ears. As far as you not be able to get another guy - false, because your ethnic background, Asian, is one of the most sought after and desired by men. You will have no problem, what so ever honey. I am almost 50 years old I have never heard one man in my life say he did not like Asian women - men love Asian women and I think it's your petite builds and beauty that enchants them.
He is a controller who wants to keep you oppressed, alone and as someone else mentioned dependent on him. Get out now or he will really mess you up mentally and emotionally.
If you're afraid of his retaliation when you dump him, go to the police dept. and get a restraining order on him if you can.
Or simply tell him face to face that you are not stupid and are aware of what he is trying to do with you. (Since he's counting on your ignorance in the matter) Tell him the things we've told you about how he is acting and what he is trying to do. Then tell him you do not ever want to see his face again and if he still persists that you will call the cops. Stand your ground, be firm and dominant the conversation so he gets the idea he can no longer push you around.
Best of luck dear.
Last edited by GINGERSNAP1963; 04-29-2013 at 07:05 AM..
You sound like a babe and a cool chick. Dump the loser. I guarantee you lots of white guys are into Asian girls and would find your differences to be alluring and intriguing, not weird.
This guy is clearly just having fun for his own gratification-And at your expense. Give him a discount on that expense : 100% off- When you tell him to take a flying leap.
People are usually on their best behavior in the beginning, if this is him at 3 months........ he should be a total abusive *bad word* in a few more months.
If you take this, and stay, he knows it is ok. Then he will do worse in all likelihood.
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I will echo what others have said. RUN! Run fast and don't look back. If he's doing this now he will not change and will keep doing it.
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Sorry, I have to laugh. I highly doubt this so called hot Italian can get any girls he wants. Some girls don't like Italians, just saying. 
