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Old 05-01-2013, 01:39 AM
 
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stress over an appartment is not that dramatic. I have alot worse problems and I have an awesome relationship with my girlfriend. We support each other and you never attack your source of support and stress release. Were you bad in bed?
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Old 05-01-2013, 01:50 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Don't sweat it move on. I recommend casual arrangements, much less hassle, more enjoyable/frequent sex sometimes and much more freedom. Goodluck.

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Old 05-10-2013, 11:30 AM
 
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You guys were so right. I finally cut the ***** loose and feel so much better.
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Old 05-10-2013, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Texas
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You guys were so right. I finally cut the ***** loose and feel so much better.
Dude....DETAILS...

Did you ever find out what was behind her attitude and such? Or were you just tired of it? Please...tell us what happened...
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Old 05-15-2013, 02:23 PM
 
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Well we ended up back together (I guess). We got in a big fight on Thursday. She left me a bitchy voicemail saying that she has NEVER had to pay her own way for anything and that she was pissed that she had to pay for her own DQ. She was mad that I was buying tables and ovens and didn't pay for her DQ. We had sex two days later. So technically I guess I can date her and others. She verbally broke up with me in the voicemail and never said anything about being exclusive again...
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Old 05-15-2013, 02:30 PM
 
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I somehow don't think DQ = Dairy Queen, but if so, this makes your story pretty awesome!

But seriously, I wouldn't even try getting back together with her. If it's already this stressful/drama-filled after a few months together, I can't imagine things getting much better, especially since you've tried to be understanding and patient.

Say no and walk away from her drama!
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Old 05-15-2013, 02:42 PM
 
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Unfortunately, I did mean Dairy Queen. Lol!

Well, ever since she broke up with me via voicemail she's been a lot less bitchy. She moves this weekend. We'll see what happens. I can't see myself getting too far with her though.
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Old 05-15-2013, 03:01 PM
 
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Unfortunately, I did mean Dairy Queen. Lol!

Well, ever since she broke up with me via voicemail she's been a lot less bitchy. She moves this weekend. We'll see what happens. I can't see myself getting too far with her though.


She's 36, pissing and moaning about paying for her Dairy Queen meal. WAT.
(Shoot, if I'm going to indulge in a trashy delight, I'm going to quietly pay for my Whataburger and go home to eat it, haha.)

Keep us updated, and good luck!
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Old 05-16-2013, 01:10 PM
 
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[SIZE=3]So anyways, based on her voicemail, she lives with the school of thought that I should pay for literally every meal.[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=3]We went out to dinner after work yesterday, and I ended up paying. She sheepishly offered to help with the tab, and I said “It’s ok, I got it”. In the past, I would say sure, but apparently, in her eyes, I should have NOT let her help, based on her voicemail where she said that she HAS never had to “pay her own way”.[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=3]In the beginning, I did pay for everything. However, I don’t feel it’s fair that I should still have to pay for everything, or if I don’t, get frowned upon. Anyways, tonight, I asked if she still wanted to hang out. She said she couldn’t because she would be busy packing, but then added that we could grab a quick dinner after work. Ugh…[/SIZE]
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Old 05-16-2013, 01:30 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Tell her you're not paying for everything. If she ditches you, good riddance.
There are other women out there. Please it's 2013 not 1963. lol
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