Oh men are are so funny about rejection.. (personality, looking, personal)
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Originally Posted by ATG5
I know what you mean, it's a good thing I've matured.
The worst is/was when I would witness a friend get shot down hard for absolutely no reason and he tries to mask the hurt by laughing it off. That gets under my skin so much.
That stuff was tough to watch..I had a buddy that was tenacious if not retarded when it came to hitting on women in bars and most times he ended up shot down like a goose at a pay lake..his standard line was always "that b***h is a lesbian"...he was serious and that was his coping mechanism...I kept him around because he never disappointed when it came to making a spectacle of himself in a funny,nonagressive way in every beer joint we were ever in.
I've never been to much on the "cold sell" with women..I hate to hassle people and I figure if they want to talk to me they'll come say something and since I have a decent sense of humor and usually have a herd of idiots around me it has always worked..as I said earlier..I'm kind lazy when it comes to "chasing" women and I can cold shoulder an arrogant woman as easy as she can cold shoulder me..."oh!you don't want some of bigdaddy loveguns?well just kick rocks on down the road baby cause your sister will"...yeah,that's the ticket.
It is amusing to me that women all claim to reject men so politely and respectfully.
But the truth is, women reject men HARSHLY and it occurs frequently. I think when a guy that doesn't meet the standards of the woman he approaches, all rules of respect and common decency fly out the window. And then they go on and laugh off about some poor loser that 'thought' he had the chance to even approach her.
It happens, and it isnt pretty. And it happens more often than people admit.
Granted, I have also been quite respectfully rejected as well, but ratio is lrobably clise to 50%rude/50% respectful. And actually, probably the most attractive woman I ever approached rejected me the best way I was ever rejected. I actually smiled as I walked away, as I was just glad that she was decent enough to say without being rude, or mean, or irritated, "No, but thanks for the offer".
I believe it is true in yours case. But I was rejected approximately 300 times in my life and I can't remember one time when women was rude. Opposite, women shay after are approached like lamp. To add I'm more or less unsuccessful with women. I'm middle aged now and do not approach anymore. For one I can say you if you want approach always go alone. This 2. case what you write is chip. I understand now why some young guys do not approach. Try improve itself, lift, better clothes, and always always always approach alone. Yeah it is clear now why I don't see any problem with cold approach. Imagine guys that are successful with women, no wonder they can just go across bar and talk. Some can only approach for sport (my past). And some just have to sit in bar like a plant. Poor 3. one. To add I’m above average good build guy, and my opening lines are most stupid possible “I like you” and similar.
Men are better at handling rejection because we get rejected more so were used to it. For example i'd say the average man in America gets rejected more times between the ages of 16-20 then the average woman does her entire life. Women aren't used to getting rejected so when it happens its kindoff a culture shock, especially for sex
One thing weird, mir86, is that you talk about men as if they're (we're) all the same. I don't think all women are like my ex-wife. I'm glad they're not.
One thing weird, mir86, is that you talk about men as if they're (we're) all the same. I don't think all women are like my ex-wife. I'm glad they're not.
huh where do I paint all men with the same brush? The title of this thread was just a general term. Maybe I should have said "some men"...this sure is a technical bunch we have here today.
huh where do I paint all men with the same brush? The title of this thread was just a general term. Maybe I should have said "some men"...this sure is a technical bunch we have here today.
Um ... the title of the thread? You're trying to say it's not what you meant?
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