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Old 05-04-2013, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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I've never met a person yet who couldn't improve their appearance with some weight loss or a little more attention to their appearance. Nobody is hopeless.
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Old 05-04-2013, 01:00 PM
 
Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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I'm shaped like as you say and I can't wear what I want(shorts , small dresses) because of nonstop street harrassment so sometimes the grass isn't greener on the other side
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Old 05-06-2013, 01:17 AM
 
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Op,try dressing in gothic lolita.
It showns form without showing skin.

Another thing.....visit someplace else. I know you said you are from Ohio,but take a train into Nyc,or Chicago.
Men in another city would probably pay more attention to you than your present location.
I find what men find pretty in one location isn't pretty in another location.
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Old 05-06-2013, 03:12 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I dread Spring and Summertime. A lot of girls in my city start wearing scantily clad clothes that show off bodies that look way better than mine. I feel so threatened and insecure by this. It's like a huge competition. Before anyone says work out, nothing can change my unfortunate figure. I don't have huge breasts, w/ a coke bottle figure & naturally long hair. I never leave the house during this time because there is no way a guy is going to look my way when there are so many more attractive women with desirable attributes around. And if I do meet someone, he'll still look at far more attractive women than me when we're out. I'm hopeless

Because you were so happy and self confidant during the winter months?
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Old 05-08-2013, 02:36 PM
 
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Seriously most undesirable trait in a women. low-self esteem you need to work on that and going to the gym always helps even if it's not going to make your boobs bigger. I think every body should go to the gym regularly
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Old 05-08-2013, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Seriously most undesirable trait in a women. low-self esteem you need to work on that and going to the gym always helps even if it's not going to make your boobs bigger. I think every body should go to the gym regularly
I don't understand why she would want big boobs. They're pretty horrible, it's hard to find clothing that fits, you can't wear anything 'cute' without it looking slutty and it's hard to be taken seriously when the group you're giving a presentation to is just staring at your chest.

/boobrant
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Old 05-08-2013, 03:06 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I don't understand why she would want big boobs. They're pretty horrible, it's hard to find clothing that fits, you can't wear anything 'cute' without it looking slutty and it's hard to be taken seriously when the group you're giving a presentation to is just staring at your chest.

/boobrant
I hate it when my intellectual conversations get disrupted by people looking at my massive Asian boobs.
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Old 05-08-2013, 03:08 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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I don't understand why she would want big boobs. They're pretty horrible, it's hard to find clothing that fits, you can't wear anything 'cute' without it looking slutty and it's hard to be taken seriously when the group you're giving a presentation to is just staring at your chest.

/boobrant
Because that's how nyanna rolls..too dark, not pretty enough, boobs are too small, her man looks at other women
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Old 05-08-2013, 03:14 PM
 
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skin to Win''' whoop, whoop love the heat.....
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Old 05-08-2013, 03:20 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I hate it when my intellectual conversations get disrupted by people looking at my massive Asian boobs.
Not gonna lie...I've been caught staring a few times.

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Because that's how nyanna rolls..too dark, not pretty enough, boobs are too small, her man looks at other women
I was always kind of curious if her faults were in her head, or if she actually had people TELL her what her faults were.

I mean, I've had complete strangers point out my faults and flaws on multiple occasions so I'm well aware of what they are. But if she's internalizing it that would be an issue.
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