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Old 05-04-2013, 09:52 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Use your words.



Say, 'I'd like to date you.'



If you feel that way and you have not known them well for at least a year, then you are projecting. You are imagining that they are the perfect person for you, but you don't really have any idea if it's true because you don't know them. It's best to keep this part to yourself .



Say, 'I had great time. Want to get together again? Because I do.'



Pay attention to what they love, give them more of that. Also, ask them what makes them feel special. They will love that you want to know!
Exactly. Tell the guy what you want and what you think of him --- good or bad.
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Old 05-04-2013, 11:12 AM
 
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Wait, they have talked, and they have agreed that they both want a romantic relationship, but nothing had happened? What is stopping them? Is there something you are not saying?
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Old 05-04-2013, 11:14 AM
 
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Thank you, Frihed .
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Old 05-04-2013, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Colorado Denver
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Wait, they have talked, and they have agreed that they both want a romantic relationship, but nothing had happened? What is stopping them? Is there something you are not saying?
In the past he has expressed a want for more in the relationship but she just went through a unexpected heartbreaking breakup so the timing was off. Now that shes in a good place with herself she wonders if she missed the boat. I don't know how to tell her to change the relationship another than just tell him or show him but as a young woman she isn't going to just blurt it out is wants to test the waters and see if he's still interested and then take it from there. I'm to forward I told he jump his bones if he stops that means no if he continues that mean he's good to go lol
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Old 05-04-2013, 04:13 PM
 
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In the past he has expressed a want for more in the relationship but she just went through a unexpected heartbreaking breakup so the timing was off. Now that shes in a good place with herself she wonders if she missed the boat. I don't know how to tell her to change the relationship another than just tell him or show him but as a young woman she isn't going to just blurt it out
Why not? A person should be capable of that kind of conversation by age 15 or so. She can just say, 'HEy, you know, now that I am over JoeBob, I was wondering what you think of maybe us dating?'

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wants to test the waters and see if he's still interested and then take it from there. I'm to forward I told he jump his bones if he stops that means no if he continues that mean he's good to go lol
Well, if he has any sense he WILL stop her, and ask if she is sure she wants to do this, if she is over her broken heart, if she wants something serious or just a ONS, what sort of birth control she uses, has she had STI tests since breaking up with her ex, etc.

I guess she could use that as a test of his bf qualities / potential. Or she could just talk to him.
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Old 05-05-2013, 05:10 AM
 
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Go buy a sweet card and tell him how you feel in it, or write a poem and put it inside. Invite him over to your place for a favorite meal then cuddle up on the couch with him and give him the card.
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Old 05-05-2013, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Colorado Denver
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Why not? A person should be capable of that kind of conversation by age 15 or so. She can just say, 'HEy, you know, now that I am over JoeBob, I was wondering what you think of maybe us dating?'



Well, if he has any sense he WILL stop her, and ask if she is sure she wants to do this, if she is over her broken heart, if she wants something serious or just a ONS, what sort of birth control she uses, has she had STI tests since breaking up with her ex, etc.

I guess she could use that as a test of his bf qualities / potential. Or she could just talk to him.
oops I'd mean sex I meant to make out. I told her that if she had the opportunity and he seemed open to it that if she close in and kissed him (sexually not a peck) he'd get the hint then she would have to explain her actions if he looked stunned but I'm sure it'd break the ice.

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Go buy a sweet card and tell him how you feel in it, or write a poem and put it inside. Invite him over to your place for a favorite meal then cuddle up on the couch with him and give him the card.
I'm sure she'd like your way it sounds more her speed she hasn't really learned that if you want something you have to say it. LoL not sure where she picked that trait up from her dad and I are very outspoken. Thanks for the advise
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