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Let's use names for this; I am Teresa my sons name is Cody, my boyfriends name is Ron his daughters name is Leslie and her daughter name is Jewel, her boyfriends name is Micky.
Ron ask me to move in with him because he could not afford to pay his bills by himself. Which is $1205.00 per month just for the home payment, lights, and water. Ron told me we would split it even. And I asked him about Leslie and Micky he said they would pay also but not sure how long they would stay maybe only a short while. So as it turnes out I got the crap pulled on me. I head asked to have the wifi turned on which is $94.00 a month then I was told I had to pay $600.00 a month. When I asked why I was told that Leslie and Micky paid $600.00 dollars also. Then So if they use the wifi which they all are Ron, Leslie , Micky then it should come off my part since Ron decided he would pay none of the bills himself.
Oh but to physically take the money we give him and pay the stuff. Well the house is 3 bedrooms and 2 baths so Cody my son is told that he has to knock on the bedroom door which is the bedroom Ron and I share if the other bathroom is being used. Which is full of toys and all of their stuff. I asked if he could at least have a draw to put his soap, tooth brush and stuff in and I was laughed at. Which my son had broke his hip the year before and struggles with walking he has to hold on because his hip pops out and he has a lot of pain.
Then the living room is full of Leslie's junk and Jewels toys. The kitchen is always dirty and dishes always in the sink. Leslie takes 90% of the refrigerator . And I have to put my stuff in the freezer in the garage. Washing machine and laundry room is full of her dirty laundry and she keeps the machine in use.
Then I work all day and come home she has friends parked in the drive way in my space and I have to park on the side of the street until I can go move my car when she leaves and they laugh about it.
I hope you understand that no one in that house cares about you or your son. You are there to pay a half of the expenses, that's what they need you for.
Life would be simpler if you got your own place. Living in that mess sounds wretched. Heck, I’d get a motel room. At least there’d be free WiFi and TV.
I hope you understand that no one in that house cares about you or your son. You are there to pay a half of the expenses, that's what they need you for.
Yep.
OP, you were brought in to pay the bills. That's a terrible reason to move in with someone (well, terrible for YOU. It's working great for Ron et al.)
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