Can't have sex then it was over (dating, girl, romantic)
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If a girl tells the guy she cannot have sex with him because of her past experience and religious reasons while dating, would the guy leave her?
When i told him i could not have sex with him because this is the way i am so i told him either you accept the way i am or not. ( I didnt exactly say this but i said this is the way i am now do you think you can deal with it) Basically he said its tough but for me knowing that he was hesitant to stay with me made me think that he does not like me enough so i called him and said I dont want this and he said okay and it was the end. I feel so frustrated because i liked him a lot, what do you guys think?
FYI: We were not serious, we were just seeing each other
i am 22 years old he was 27
Last edited by Wildhorses123; 05-14-2013 at 07:08 PM..
If a girl tells the guy she cannot have sex with him because of her past experience and religious reasons while dating, would the guy leave her?
When i told him i could not have sex with him because this is the way i am so i told him either you accept the way i am or not. Basically he said its tough but for me knowing that he was hesitant to stay with me made me think that he does not like me enough so i called him and said I dont want this and he said okay and it was the end. I feel so frustrated, what do you guys think?
You mean no sex ever? If that is the case, then most guys would leave, me included.
If a girl tells the guy she cannot have sex with him because of her past experience and religious reasons while dating, would the guy leave her?
When i told him i could not have sex with him because this is the way i am so i told him either you accept the way i am or not. Basically he said its tough but for me knowing that he was hesitant to stay with me made me think that he does not like me enough so i called him and said I dont want this and he said okay and it was the end. I feel so frustrated, what do you guys think?
You told him that he could either accept it or not. Then, rather than give him the time to make up his own mind about you, you had a hissy fit and dumped him before he could possibly dump you.
And you're frustrated, why? You said you didn't want this. So now you don't have it. You achieved your aim and got what you wanted. You have no reason to complain.
Sex is generally a part of adult romantic relationships at some point. I do think many men would be hesitant to continue in a relationship that was bound to be sexless.
Sorry, but most guys expect sex fairly early on...many will leave if they don't get it within the first 3 dates.
If you stick to your convictions that's great..but just know that it will really narrow the field you could date, and if you do find a guy more than likely he'll just sleep with someone else on the side while dating you.
Well i just told him the reasons why, I didnt want to make empty promises I will have sex but i also didnt tell him never either.
You should look for a asexual guy. There are internet communities for asexual people.
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