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I don't know if mad is the right word, but I get annoyed. I don't look at other guys when I'm with someone.
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Originally Posted by Davros
I think you're a rare breed, then. Amongst both men and women.
My wife is a member of that "rare breed". Come to think of it, I've never been with a girl I saw looking at another guy, in all of about 9 relationships. Sure, it doesn't mean they didn't look, but surely I would've caught one or two of them!
Not that it's a dealbreaker either way; but it does make a man feel good when the girl he's with would prefer to stare at him.
I'm not kidding. When I am with someone I give them my undivided attention. Also if I really like someone, my focus is always on them.
This is how I am as well. I may glance, but I do that to most people because I'm a people watcher. I don't stare, or leer or make comments. Hell, I had a date recently where we sat on a bench and people watched for a few hours while eating frozen yogurt.
However, I may have misunderstood. I may have though you meant you never look at other men at all during the entire time that you are dating someone, rather than that you don't stare at other men when you're actually out on a date with your man.
I guess that was the topic of this thread, so I apologize for misunderstanding.
Why should marriage/dating mean an end to checking people out ? What about TV ? Would you ban your boyfriend from watching pretty women on TV ?
YES!!!!! absolutely!!!! and first of all.. please let me ask you.... why on earth would you not find enough in your girlfriend/fiance/wife/significant other that you would feel the need to be constantly checking out these other "beautiful women?" Do you not understand that there are a million things that go into a woman shown in mags and or tv that make them 99% completely unrealistic? And more importantly, do you not find enough beauty in your girlfriend with who she is, what she does for you, how she makes you feel, the way she looks, etc..... that you cant be content with her and soly her? Im so disgusted with men like you, and indescribably disappointed that you can not be happy with the one you have. Unfortunately, due to television, radio, magazines, movies and just day to day activities... you give in to the temptation that the new age has repeatedly thrown in your face. Boobs, nudity, women women women, and a strong sense of non reality. Saying "you shouldn't ban him from beautiful women on tv" is a direct reflection of how sad the world has become. You shouldn't have to say those words, but only say, "you should feel beautiful just as you are. And the man your with will either make you feel that, or not. And if the answer is dismal, perhaps it's time to move on." Perhaps its a guess, perhaps its a pre judgement..... but gut instinct tells me your girlfriend should do just that. Tv wont be there weeping over your grave. These "beautiful" actresses wont be there either. Show a little respect to those who choose to spend their lives with you. And.... PUT UP WITH YOU!!!!
I find it funny that some women here's comments are that they don't care or that they point it out. Here's the thing that's y your husband keeps on checking out other women is because he feels like disrespecting you cause u don't even respect yourself. When did a matter like that ever be funny and please I'm sure you're not okay with it but lying. I don't even like when a man look at me while with their partner cause I wouldn't want my man to do the same....so why would you? With do respects its just that this is the reason why men cheat and disrespect us women too much is because you're allowing him to do so. You tell me that you don't care if your husband said that girl is beautiful? You're right there next to him......and how do even know what he's thinking in his head and for men who says their wives don't care.....obviously u find it funny cause u can do it whenever u want she won't mind but have a little dignity
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