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Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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Originally Posted by Raffael
if she's begging to be in the same room with you, you should already know what time it is
get out asap, never meet her
she's obviously extremely desperate and/or crazy
no self-respecting, normal, girl will beg a man to be in the same room, it would be the opposite in fact
He's gonna wake up without a kidney. Or wishing that was the least of his problems.
I agree, the woman is nuts. Reverse it. What if you were a man begging a woman to share a room that you met on the internet. I'd call that CREEPY with a capital CREEPY.
I feel like we're being trolled at this point. I wouldn't be surprised if this girl found Brok's thread about being alone forever and is totally taking advantage of it. I'm still creeped out by all involved.
I don't get how someone who has never had a female friend and was bemoaning the fact he wants to die (and indicated a ton of self-loathing) can meet a girl in less than what... two weeks who wants to shack up with him. Seems all to convenient.
Clue: she can't move in with you if she's a Canadian citizen. How's she going to get a residency visa? Max she can stay in the US is a few months. How would she get a job? She's not authorized to work in the US.
Just because you have stuff in common doesn't mean you'll get along, or even that you'd find each other attractive in person. I'd not only stay in separate rooms, if I were you, I'd stay in separate hotels. This doesn't look good.
If you don't like the South, move out of the South.
I feel like we're being trolled at this point. I wouldn't be surprised if this girl found Brok's thread about being alone forever and is totally taking advantage of it. I'm still creeped out by all involved.
I don't get how someone who has never had a female friend and was bemoaning the fact he wants to die (and indicated a ton of self-loathing) can meet a girl in less than what... two weeks who wants to shack up with him. Seems all to convenient.
when I wrote that thread I was knew about her, chatted with her, I'm still alone, what's the point of it just being an internet relationship? that's like a typing online relationship, I'm still alone, I won't be when I meet her
actually, I know people who lived long distance, met each other and are together right now, so all of this " it's not going to work" suggestions is nothing but negativity
No one is saying long distance doesn't work. However, you don't have a foundation and honestly don't know each other. People obviously portray themselves as how they want to be perceived when it comes to the internet.
Everyone is telling you to be careful. In your previous threads, did you do anything or take any of the advice that people gave you? And now it seems like you're jumping the gun because this girl is interested in you - alarmingly so. Honestly, if you weren't happy with yourself when you wrote that initial post, I doubt that this could ever work. It seems to me that you're thinking this girl is your ticket out and will miraculously change your life by meeting/being with her.
That's besides the point, though. Now it sounds like the facts you're giving are contradicting themselves. She lives in Canada but is a US citizen? What? One would reasonably assume that she is Canadian. Are her parents expats? Like I said, it all sounds too convenient.
No one is trying to rain on your parade, but all of this is sketchy. If it's too good to be true, you might end up in a hotel without your kidney.
Few things are quite odd:
- you are visiting her in her country, in her city... why does she need to overnight with you in a hotel? doesn't she have her own place where she sleeps?
- she is 20, has social anxiety but she insist to sleep with a guy she never met in person, the first night they get together? That does not sound like social anxiety to me, and does not makes her a men-shy at all.
- I don't know what is her agenda, but seems that yours and hers are not the same
- she might want to have the same interest like you, and be your mirror match, because she wants you to like her
- I think she knows you are desperate man, and she she plays her game for her reasons
- I would think twice about how serious the relationship will be if a woman INSIST to sleep with me the first night we meet. What is her problem with two separate rooms? Maybe she just found out that she is pregnant and now is desperately looking for a suitable "father"? That's why she wants to sleep with you, as soon as possible?
move together because it will be easier for us, she's doesn't want to live with her mom anymore, I don't want to live where I am anymore, I don't know what you mean by meal ticket, she was going to pay for my plane ticket, but I told her no thanks.
NOOOOO!!!! You have NO idea of what you are doing. Do NOT make any plans with a person that you have never even met!!! Good GRIEF!!!
OP, did you hear the true story about a university professor who was so lonely he fell for a con thinking it was a real model in South America that wanted to meet him and date. So he flew down to her country, but she wasn't at the airport. Instead somehow he ended up picking up a piece of what was supposed to be her luggage at the airport (he thought it was her he was in touch with regularly by email, and her instructions), and transporting it across another international border (to where she was supposedly doing a spur-the-moment change-in-schedule modeling gig), and he got nailed on drug charges. He's still in jail down there.
Lonely men are really vulnerable, and scam artists know it.
OP, did you hear the true story about a university professor who was so lonely he fell for a con thinking it was a real model in South America that wanted to meet him and date. So he flew down to her country, but she wasn't at the airport. Instead somehow he ended up picking up a piece of what was supposed to be her luggage at the airport (he thought it was her he was in touch with regularly by email, and her instructions), and transporting it across another international border (to where she was supposedly doing a spur-the-moment change-in-schedule modeling gig), and he got nailed on drug charges. He's still in jail down there.
Lonely men are really vulnerable, and scam artists know it.
lol, this is nothing like that, I'm not even going to meet her at the airport, we will be in separate hotel rooms and if she tries something funny I am prepared, I spoke with her on the phone, she isn't a model, she wasn't advertising herself, we been in verbal fights already just like others are when they are in relationships, etc... we make up, back to normal, so what are you saying? don't meet this person? stay in my bedroom and wait until I finally die? because that's what I'm doing right now, seriously, that's what I'm doing right now in my life, just waiting to die, I don't want that, I want change, I want positive change, this is the only positive opportunity in my life right now
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