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Old 05-20-2013, 03:32 PM
 
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Women can pursue men too. Do you all agree? I'm seeing that girls who go after what they want, provided the guy wants them too, have nothing to lose. If a guy knows he can have the girl back he REALLY wants, even if he's otherwise involved, he will take whom he really wants and it doesn't matter rules or no rules that the girl he really wants was the one to speak up. If you follow what I'm saying, that if a man wants you, he will be with you, period. He just might not always be the one who makes the move. Ladies, maybe you have nothing to lose if you like someone , provided he likes you too and is not on the fence. Comments . . .
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Old 05-20-2013, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Welcome to 1970.
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Old 05-20-2013, 03:35 PM
 
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Welcome to 1970.
thank you! And how is this concept in 2013? Still alive?
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Old 05-20-2013, 03:38 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Well, I would not be with my husband had I not relentlessly pursued him.

And one of my teen sons is currently dating a girl who flirted with him and basically pursued him at their part-time job.

So, based on these experiences and observations of others, I will say YES!

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Old 05-20-2013, 03:38 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Indeed they can, and often do. Most of the women I've dated in the last 15 years initiated contact, and sometimes did the pursuing after that.
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Old 05-20-2013, 03:40 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Ladies, maybe you have nothing to lose if you like someone , provided he likes you too and is not on the fence. Comments . . .
So basically you are saying it's okay to try if you have zero chance for failure. I'm not saying women should never pursue. The issue is, when the woman does the pursuing, does it obscure the fact whether the guy really likes you?
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Old 05-20-2013, 03:48 PM
 
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So basically you are saying it's okay to try if you have zero chance for failure. I'm not saying women should never pursue. The issue is, when the woman does the pursuing, does it obscure the fact whether the guy really likes you?
I think it can obscure that fact. But if he's around after you pursue him for a couple months and your pursuit has resulted in dating, it should be easy to tell he likes you , regardless who started it.
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Old 05-20-2013, 04:09 PM
 
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Women can pursue men too. Do you all agree? I'm seeing that girls who go after what they want, provided the guy wants them too, have nothing to lose. If a guy knows he can have the girl back he REALLY wants, even if he's otherwise involved, he will take whom he really wants and it doesn't matter rules or no rules that the girl he really wants was the one to speak up. If you follow what I'm saying, that if a man wants you, he will be with you, period. He just might not always be the one who makes the move. Ladies, maybe you have nothing to lose if you like someone , provided he likes you too and is not on the fence. Comments . . .
It can also be warm at night...

...well, during summer time.
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Old 05-20-2013, 04:15 PM
 
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A hand full of women do, but most don't.
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Old 05-20-2013, 04:19 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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thank you! And how is this concept in 2013? Still alive?
Women have always pursued. They always will. Women do go after what they want, if they see someone attractive. It's human nature.
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