Is this how a lady supposed to talk when she meets a guy for the first time? (girlfriend, call)

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75

During our phone conversation this sweet and reserved looking female felt the need to tell me that summer is her favorite season because "During this time of year I like to have sex in a room with no air conditioner because I am a fan of "HOT AND SWEATY SEX"


UM..............I don't want to hear that when I am just getting to know you. Was she trying to impress me? Now I know I am not the only guy who doesn't want to hear this right away??

Maybe she's trying to give you a hint.

[buddy5]

This is probably my age here, but, a lady
never talks that way.

Many things have changed in my lifetime,
and the meaning of words may grow, but
some never change.

[FBJ]

Originally Posted by buddy5

This is probably my age here, but, a lady
never talks that way.

Many things have changed in my lifetime,
and the meaning of words may grow, but
some never change.

Some women in philly say what they think ALL MEN what to hear which is sad

[funymann]

Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75

I thought she was my type from her pic, shy, reserved, and very focused on her career and not a freak.

But after talking to her that was not the case.

She's not a freak. Some guys really appreciate a woman that speaks her mind in these areas. So much better than mind reading.

You should be asking for some sweaty nude photos NOT calling her a freak.

[funymann]

Originally Posted by Tilly4578

I've said some crazy stuff to men very early on.

Lets me gauge if they can deal with my cussing like a sailor, inappropriateness etc. that is me 100% of the time.

Lol!!

Your new boyfriend is now carrying a horn for the times of your @$!?&!!! Lol!!

[nearnorth]

Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75

During our phone conversation this sweet and reserved looking female felt the need to tell me that summer is her favorite season because "During this time of year I like to have sex in a room with no air conditioner because I am a fan of "HOT AND SWEATY SEX"


UM..............I don't want to hear that when I am just getting to know you. Was she trying to impress me? Now I know I am not the only guy who doesn't want to hear this right away??

There is no rule for what people are "supposed" to say. If this really happened (which I doubt), and if you really didn't like it, move on to someone else. Problem solved. You needn't start a CDR thread for every interaction you have with a woman.

[atgss]

Originally Posted by funymann

She's not a freak. Some guys really appreciate a woman that speaks her mind in these areas. So much better than mind reading.

You should be asking for some sweaty nude photos NOT calling her a freak.

My small rendition of Creep by Radiohead.

"She's a creep.
She's a weirdo.
What the heck is she doing here.
The OP doesn't belong there."



I come from NNJ and used to being/hearing straight, direct and blunt but this woman is wild.

[Wry_Martini]

All I can say is.. looks can be deceiving. You can't always tell if someone is sexually inhibited or not based on how they look.

I'm curious though, what made you say she looked reserved? I'm guessing you meant she wasn't wearing revealing clothing in any of her pics, and didn't have any overly sexy photos posted?

[FBJ]

Originally Posted by Wry_Martini

All I can say is.. looks can be deceiving. You can't always tell if someone is sexually inhibited or not based on how they look.

I'm curious though, what made you say she looked reserved? I'm guessing you meant she wasn't wearing revealing clothing in any of her pics, and didn't have any overly sexy photos posted?

She looked pleasant and wasn't wearing revealing clothes. I would expect nasty conversation from a female who is not smiling and has hooker type outfits with multiple poses

[Slanderous]

Lady in the street but a freak in the bed.