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Old 05-22-2013, 07:12 AM
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During our phone conversation this sweet and reserved looking female felt the need to tell me that summer is her favorite season because "During this time of year I like to have sex in a room with no air conditioner because I am a fan of "HOT AND SWEATY SEX"


UM..............I don't want to hear that when I am just getting to know you. Was she trying to impress me? Now I know I am not the only guy who doesn't want to hear this right away??

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Old 05-22-2013, 07:15 AM
 
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Wow!!

I think the more shocking the more you will remember her.

Maybe it's a test. If you say,"cool lets do it!" You fail.

If you say, "I'd like to get to know a person before that takes place." You're in!!
 
Old 05-22-2013, 07:20 AM
 
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Where's the context? What were you saying immediately before that? That matters, a lot.
 
Old 05-22-2013, 07:21 AM
 
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During our phone conversation this sweet and reserved looking female felt the need to tell me this

"During this time of year I like to have sex in a room with no air conditioner because I am a fan of "HOT AND SWEATY SEX"


UM..............I don't want to hear that when I am just getting to know you. Was she trying to impress me? Now I know I am not the only guy who doesn't want to hear this right away??
You just got to know HER. Sounds like she is not for you.
 
Old 05-22-2013, 07:31 AM
 
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What's the big deal? Why do you you have all these "rules" about what people are allowed to say or ask? If you don't like it, move on. Simple.
 
Old 05-22-2013, 07:31 AM
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Where's the context? What were you saying immediately before that? That matters, a lot.

We were talking about the upcoming summer and she explained why the summer is her favorite season.
 
Old 05-22-2013, 07:37 AM
 
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I find people who talk about sex right away aren't the ones I would want to be in a relationship with.
 
Old 05-22-2013, 07:43 AM
 
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We were talking about the upcoming summer and she explained why the summer is her favorite season.
Well if you weren't talking about sex or anything, then it's safe to assume she's really REALLY comfortable with her sexuality. That in itself is not a bad thing, but it might mean she's not really interested in a relationship. You should do all that you can to find out what her intentions with you are, and then ask yourself if you're truly okay with that.

Hard to imagine a girl like this being relationship material, though. I'd take it slow with her.
 
Old 05-22-2013, 07:47 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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During our phone conversation this sweet and reserved looking female felt the need to tell me that summer is her favorite season because "During this time of year I like to have sex in a room with no air conditioner because I am a fan of "HOT AND SWEATY SEX"


UM..............I don't want to hear that when I am just getting to know you. Was she trying to impress me? Now I know I am not the only guy who doesn't want to hear this right away??
maybe she's not into a committed relationship? just sex?

sounds good to me.
 
Old 05-22-2013, 07:54 AM
 
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I've met girls who talk about sex right off the bat to try and scare me away. If you can deal with it, roll with the punches.

Friend of a friend told me she would only go with me to an event if she was promised sex afterwards...

Multiple girls have told me to take them to my bed or bedroom right now at parties/bars...

Girl told me she thinks I'm good in bed and to prove it to her...
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