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Old 05-26-2013, 10:54 PM
 
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After having a bad rejection nearly half a decade ago, I try to repress my sexuality.

I always take my time before I touch, kiss, and make out with a woman. However, on certain male-dominated forums the advice is to push until they say no, and then try pushing again. Their justification for that is that if you don't escalate quickly, the woman will think you aren't attracted to her.


...So, how fast should a man escalate (I know it will vary for each woman)?
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Old 05-26-2013, 10:56 PM
 
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You should never push a woman when she says no!
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Old 05-26-2013, 10:59 PM
 
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After having a bad rejection nearly half a decade ago, I try to repress my sexuality.

I always take my time before I touch, kiss, and make out with a woman. However, on certain male-dominated forums the advice is to push until they say no, and then try pushing again. Their justification for that is that if you don't escalate quickly, the woman will think you aren't attracted to her.


...So, how fast should a man escalate (I know it will vary for each woman)?
A woman who wants a quality relationship is willing to give things time to develop.

However, you can't stall or leave her hanging.

As long as there is forward motion from the very beginning, she'll know you are attracted to her.
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Old 05-26-2013, 11:00 PM
 
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OP, I don't think there is one set answer.

Pushing directly after someone says no is a bad idea. What sort of physical escalation are you talking about?
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Old 05-26-2013, 11:03 PM
 
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OP, I don't think there is one set answer.

Pushing directly after someone says no is a bad idea. What sort of physical escalation are you talking about?
The speed of physical escalation essentially means the speed that one becomes physically intimate.

...Also I should clarify that the pushing after the other person says no isn't immediate, it's after a bit of time.
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Old 05-26-2013, 11:05 PM
 
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The speed of physical escalation essentially means the speed that one becomes physically intimate.

...Also I should clarify that the pushing after the other person says no isn't immediate, it's after a bit of time.
A bit of time meaning not in the same date, right?
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Old 05-26-2013, 11:09 PM
 
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Just get the plastic surgery, otherwise just take a chemical castration pill. Women would have slept with you by now if they were sexually interested, its that simple.
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Old 05-26-2013, 11:10 PM
 
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A woman who wants a quality relationship is willing to give things time to develop.

However, you can't stall or leave her hanging.

As long as there is forward motion from the very beginning, she'll know you are attracted to her.
What does that mean exactly though?
I probably have stalled before.
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Old 05-26-2013, 11:12 PM
 
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Just get the plastic surgery, otherwise just take a chemical castration pill. Women would have slept with you by now if they were sexually interested, its that simple.
Eh?

I slept with a woman before, however, I am a bit inexperienced with being more than just friends with a woman due to the fact that it's only recently that I got my own place...
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Old 05-26-2013, 11:19 PM
 
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Eh?

I slept with a woman before, however, I am a bit inexperienced with being more than just friends with a woman due to the fact that it's only recently that I got my own place...
Oh ok, I thought you were having women friendzone you a lot. IF a woman is truly interested it isent going to take eons for her to sleep with you.
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