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Old 05-31-2013, 08:52 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Q.U.E.E.N View Post
No, it's not strange. I only smile at people who smile at me first, I see it more as an American thing.

Other than that, I don't smile strangers.... unless they're staring at me heavily.
I think this is a regional thing.

Maybe she is down south somewhere and you live in the northeast?
I do thinks it weird that people say smile at strange men...until I note their location.


Btw,when someone looks at you,how do you know exactly they are interested?
How do you know that the men aren't looking at you like you are some disgusying creature?
I just found out that when a man says "how are you doing" that he may have been interested...
I thiught it was friendly gesture.

 
Old 05-31-2013, 08:53 PM
 
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I agree.

Either she is pulling one over on us OR

it is possible that she is too hot and combined with being perceived as a stuck-up snob (because she is shy and won't make eye contact and smile) no decent guy will approach her. Plus that she only socializes with men at her work doesn't help.
Maybe she has an ugly face?
You could have dream measurements,but if your face is off no man would approach.
 
Old 05-31-2013, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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Sorry for being obtuse, but something doesn't compute here. These are dream measurements - the sort of numbers that women would torture themselves to attain, the numbers over which men upgrade their internet connection-speed to nurture the fantasy. Even with deeply aloof and even outright abrasive personality, men would be venturing to approach left and right.
Speak for yourself!
 
Old 05-31-2013, 10:05 PM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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Default lol

I bet $500 O.P is model gorgeous? I had this girl once who asked me why do guys lie to her? or don't approach hrt? She sent me a pic and my jaw dropped, she was ###$%% gorgeous. As i was babbling trying to tell her the reason was guys are ittimidatted so they have to lie to feel there in your league.

Or the op is just having fun. And if im wrong? then my apologies.
 
Old 06-01-2013, 01:00 AM
 
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I bet $500 O.P is model gorgeous? I had this girl once who asked me why do guys lie to her? or don't approach hrt? She sent me a pic and my jaw dropped, she was ###$%% gorgeous. As i was babbling trying to tell her the reason was guys are ittimidatted so they have to lie to feel there in your league.

Or the op is just having fun. And if im wrong? then my apologies.
Quite possibly, hence she is asking the question. Because something tells me that if a woman is never approached because she is just too unattractive, she wouldn't be on here asking why she doesn't get approached - she'd know the reason very well. I was an ugly duckling all through my teens and young adulthood, and I never wondered why I didn't get approached - in fact I was genuinely surprised whenever someone DID approach me. It took me meeting my husband and then being approached by a number of men once I was already 'taken' before I could actually believe that guys could be attracted to me.
 
Old 06-01-2013, 01:02 AM
 
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Maybe she has an ugly face?
You could have dream measurements,but if your face is off no man would approach.
I have not problem to date a women with ugly face but perfect build. Even more if some of such is at this forum contact me. Perfect build is tall, athletic, broad shoulders, sexy buts.
 
Old 06-01-2013, 01:11 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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You pretty much summed it all up.
 
Old 06-01-2013, 01:20 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Quite possibly, hence she is asking the question. Because something tells me that if a woman is never approached because she is just too unattractive, she wouldn't be on here asking why she doesn't get approached - she'd know the reason very well. I was an ugly duckling all through my teens and young adulthood, and I never wondered why I didn't get approached - in fact I was genuinely surprised whenever someone DID approach me. It took me meeting my husband and then being approached by a number of men once I was already 'taken' before I could actually believe that guys could be attracted to me.
What was it that attracted your husband to you?
 
Old 06-01-2013, 01:25 AM
 
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Could it be because I'm really ugly or extremely attractive. I don't think I look bad and I take care of my self, but I'm definitely not perfect. It makes me depressed that I don't think I'll ever have a boyfriend because guys never approach me.

Maybe they're intimidated by your "blueberries" !
 
Old 06-01-2013, 01:43 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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Oh I would never post a picture online. You never know what someone would do with your picture. I just want to know if I might be doing something that men never approach me.
What are you doing?

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