Being a rugged man vs being a cute guy. (girlfriend, friends, problems)

[Ulysses61]

Women have sex with guys they feel are hot not cute.

Thank you for speaking on behalf of all 3 billion women on this planet.

Never mind this generalization is both sweeping and laughably inaccurate.

[NilaJones]

'Cute' means 'sexually attractive to me', in girlspeak, and depending on context.

A guy friend of mine was so bummed out when he figured this out, and realised how many opportunities he had missed.

[DR2012]

I like both. I usually prefer rugged. I prefer some hair. Like 20yearsinBranson, I am not into the skinny twit (LOL I think that is what she said?) hairless look. I don't necessarily refer to men as cute or rugged or put them in those groups though.
If a man is naturally less hairy and not as rugged, fine. I just know I am not into skinny-jeans wearing hipster type guys. If a guy doesn't have much body hair and is more cute than rugged, doesn't mean I wouldn't find him attractive. But I think a guy with hair is great, and shouldn't be lasering it off.

I think a woman should like you for what you are, and if you have to go to the laser to be liked then you are getting with the wrong woman.

[Serena Sattar]

You described yourself as a very hansome looking man. alot of women are attracted to the look you described, but you never said what type of females you are pursuing and i really don't know every single females personality, so i can't answer your question.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by JJ1987

I've been told I am handsome but I feel like that's a womans nice way of saying your ugly or not her type.

JJ1987 you are one gorgeous 25 yr old. The ladies will be swarming you.

[mom2justynsarah]

Originally Posted by TheHurricaneKid

Which is more attractive to women?

I am rather rugged with hairy arms, chest hair, facial hair, thick eye brows and an underbite. Despite having a great hairline and smooth pale skin, I look older than what I am. I think my appearance (and preference for plaid shirts) attracts the wrong women.

How old are you? Seems like you are simply attracting the outdoorsy/rugged/biker type woman? What type of women are you interested in? You are giving me the visual that you look like those guys from the show "The Duck Dynasty." If that's the case... Personally, I have never been attracted to the "plaid shirt" wearing man (no offense).

If you want to attract a different type of woman, you need to dress differently, shave your beard, and get your eye brows cleaned up. Then you will at least see what other women you are attracting.

[jade408]

Originally Posted by NilaJones

'Cute' means 'sexually attractive to me', in girlspeak, and depending on context.

A guy friend of mine was so bummed out when he figured this out, and realised how many opportunities he had missed.

Yup I don't know why some people don't get it.

Cute is a compliment....and you might even get the objection in the next sentence so you know what you are up against.

i.e.: He is really cute, but too young.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by jade408

Yup I don't know why some people don't get it.

Cute is a compliment....and you might even get the objection in the next sentence so you know what you are up against.

i.e.: He is really cute, but too young.

I think men want to hear DEAD SEXY!!!!!

[jade408]

Originally Posted by Raena77

I think men want to hear DEAD SEXY!!!!!

I thought we aren't supposed to be too aggressive.


On an autocorrecting iDevice.

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by Raena77

I think men want to hear DEAD SEXY!!!!!

Not really,

I had one psycho b---- chase me with a knife shouting "YOU'RE DEAD, SEXY!!!