At What Point Does Calling Someone "My Fiance" Become Joke Rather Than An Honest Description... (married, woman)
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I always thought calling someone "my fiance" implied that you had agreed to get married, and that the wedding would take place within a fairly short amount of time--maybe a year or two.
However, I keep running into people who have been "engaged" for 5, 6, even 7 or more years. Some even have kids.
I am not questioning people's right to conduct their relationships as they choose. But at what point does calling someone "my fiance" begin to raise eyebrows?
I always thought calling someone "my fiance" implied that you had agreed to get married, and that the wedding would take place within a fairly short amount of time--maybe a year or two.
However, I keep running into people who have been "engaged" for 5, 6, even 7 or more years. Some even have kids.
I am not questioning people's right to conduct their relationships as they choose. But at what point does calling someone "my fiance" begin to raise eyebrows?
I think you have a good point. I knew a few people who were engaged for over 10 years. Some had children, some didn't. They lived together, bought homes, made lives together but married such a long time after they got engaged.
When he goes from "fiance" to "baby daddy". Then scoots on support, changes his phone number and claims in Court that he's homeless. Is happening to a friend.
I wouldn't want to get engaged if I wasn't going to be married within a year afterwards. I definitely think it's weird to be engaged for 10 years, but whatever works I guess.
Meh, my old boss got married after an engagement that lasted nearly a decade. She had been with the guy who is now her husband since she was 18 - she didn't see the need to formalize it. Plus they had two ginormous families who would expect the "full pageant" wedding, and she was dreading that. After around 15 or 20 years together, they decided to have children, so they got married.
The way I figure, you can call it whatever you want. It's no skin off my back how someone chooses to define their relationship.
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