Looks are 100% of the reason that attracts a woman - so why even have a personality? (attracted, hubby)

[TheHurricaneKid]

Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda

so it's shallowness then?

if looks don't matter, then how come they do all of a sudden, when you have choice?

Looks are enjoyable and add to the total package.

However, attraction is more than just looks or materialistic benefits.


Attraction is about the emotional connection, and if you can't provide that, then why should women want to be with you?

[PurpleShadow]

Yep, women care about looks just like men do. I don't see why this is such a big deal.

Women who are worth dating care about more than looks because we don't want to end up dating Ted Bundy. However, you're not going to date these women by constantly whining about how women only care about appearance or whining about how all the hot women are taken.

[duster1979]

Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda

ok, so how many wimpy guys with great personalities have hot GF/s?

not many i reckon

So looks are apparently 100% of what attracts guys, too.

[JrzDefector]

Dude, you don't really have a personality most people would feel any respect for. You've basically said in repeated posts that morals are meaningless and that you mostly care about only yourself. Your personality is repellant - that is the problem. I'm sure you're very socially facile, but as soon as anyone with an iota of emotional intelligence gets a glimpse of the sociopathic tendencies underneath, they're going to run like hell.

[Kenneth-Kaunda]

Originally Posted by PurpleShadow

Yep, women care about looks just like men do. I don't see why this is such a big deal.

Women who are worth dating care about more than looks because we don't want to end up dating Ted Bundy. However, you're not going to date these women by constantly whining about how women only care about appearance or whining about how all the hot women are taken.

I think you have just strengthened my case here because this is kind of the point I am getting at.

Because Ted Bundy was good looking, he managed to bag a lot of girls - but they were too shallow to look beyond this, and ended up paying dearly.

So shallowness has consequences to say the least.

[TheHurricaneKid]

Originally Posted by duster1979

So looks are apparently 100% of what attracts guys, too.

It's rare to see a man stay long with someone with a bitchy personality though.

[Djuna]

What an utterly ridiculous premise to begin with. Everyone has a personality, even the most boring and stupid people in this world. It isn't something you can turn off. You just failed LOGIC 101.

[TheHurricaneKid]

Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda

I think you have just strengthened my case here because this is kind of the point I am getting at.

Because Ted Bundy was good looking, he managed to bag a lot of girls - but they were too shallow to look beyond this, and ended up paying dearly.

So shallowness has consequences to say the least.

Well, you may not be as crazy as Ted (or at least I hope you are not) but your personality and hatred for women is off putting.

[Kenneth-Kaunda]

The personality is irrelevant if the looks are not up to scratch though - this is because the woman will not care to see it.

[TheHurricaneKid]

Originally Posted by Djuna

What an utterly ridiculous premise to begin with. Everyone has a personality, even the most boring and stupid people in this world. It isn't something you can turn off. You just failed LOGIC 101.

Some personalities are no fun, though.