Men, Which of These Women Appeals to You More? (looking, interested, Indian)

[Kings Gambit]

Originally Posted by orangeapple

Copying the "Ladies which of these guys appeals to you more?" thread...

Woman A
Beautiful face with a fantastic body. Style-wise is fashionable & feminine with great hair & well-done makeup. Likes art, literature, travel - is sophisticated & cultured. Not down to earth, but elegant, classy & a tad whimsical. Very intelligent & informed on global issues. Has a professional job & higher education. Strong sense of morality & integrity. Very kind & sweet, is generous & easy-going with a strong altruistic nature, but sometimes aloof and hard to open up. Is subtly sensuous, hinting at more, but slow to warm at first. Has no children & has never been married.

Woman B
Average looking with an average body. Style-wise is simple & plain & cheap. Likes sports & pop culture - talks about reality show personas like she knows them. Earthy but shallow; has little interests beyond her daily sphere. Works a menial job & has a high school education. Has some common sense but is not bright otherwise. Tends to sway with the wind; adapts to current trends for moral standards & values. Can be funny & bubbly - is warm & puts people at ease, but is still often naggy, gossipy, and demanding. Is openly flirty & aggressive. Has a child from a previous marriage.

Let's say all the other factors are about the same.

This isnt even close. Woman A for sure.

[david0966]

The problem with these types of polls is in reality the vast majority are a combination of these two. I'd say my s/o is 75% A and 25% B. She loves travel and the arts and very educated and in a position where she supervises a number of people. However, she is very down to earth, has a lot of interests and plenty of common sense. So, I didn't vote but there are more positives to me with the A compared to B.

[usayit]

The description of woman B paints a woman in a bad light... using terms that area associated with the negative. Woman B may be the better choice for some but the description would make them sway to woman A unfairly.

Woman B to me sounds like a dumb, ugly, unsophisticated, trailer trash which may be an unfair assessment.

Of course I would choose A over B BUT I have very little in common with woman A.... more than likely split up with such a woman shortly after the 1st date.

[ohio_peasant]

To me, "Woman B" congeals the very antithesis of what I seek. Her lifestyle, mores and principles, manners and values, interests and behaviors are precisely the opposite of what I'd find to be appealing in a romantic partner, or for that matter a friend, a neighbor or coworker. "Woman A" is of course also a cartoon and a composite sketch, perhaps contrived to be maximally appealing. And yes, the appeal works. But my main point here is that "Woman B" - and it doesn't really matter that she happens to be a woman - isn't the sort of person whose company I'd crave. Full stop.

[Fargobound]

Originally Posted by orangeapple

Copying the "Ladies which of these guys appeals to you more?" thread...

Woman A
Beautiful face with a fantastic body. Style-wise is fashionable & feminine with great hair & well-done makeup. Likes art, literature, travel - is sophisticated & cultured. Not down to earth, but elegant, classy & a tad whimsical. Very intelligent & informed on global issues. Has a professional job & higher education. Strong sense of morality & integrity. Very kind & sweet, is generous & easy-going with a strong altruistic nature, but sometimes aloof and hard to open up. Is subtly sensuous, hinting at more, but slow to warm at first. Has no children & has never been married.



Let's say all the other factors are about the same.

I typically find women like A:

Flighty
Unreliable
Un-lovable
Intellectually dishonest
Loaded to the gills with student loan debt

I’ve dated a few type a women and the reality is they just have not gotten a cat(s) yet.


Woman B is the type of women that you can fart in front of and she’s not going to read you the riot act.

[Westerntraveler]

I would pick woman A.

[Indianapolis Jones]

Originally Posted by orangeapple

Copying the "Ladies which of these guys appeals to you more?" thread...

Woman A
Beautiful face with a fantastic body. Style-wise is fashionable & feminine with great hair & well-done makeup. Likes art, literature, travel - is sophisticated & cultured. Not down to earth, but elegant, classy & a tad whimsical. Very intelligent & informed on global issues. Has a professional job & higher education. Strong sense of morality & integrity. Very kind & sweet, is generous & easy-going with a strong altruistic nature, but sometimes aloof and hard to open up. Is subtly sensuous, hinting at more, but slow to warm at first. Has no children & has never been married.

Woman B
Average looking with an average body. Style-wise is simple & plain & cheap. Likes sports & pop culture - talks about reality show personas like she knows them. Earthy but shallow; has little interests beyond her daily sphere. Works a menial job & has a high school education. Has some common sense but is not bright otherwise. Tends to sway with the wind; adapts to current trends for moral standards & values. Can be funny & bubbly - is warm & puts people at ease, but is still often naggy, gossipy, and demanding. Is openly flirty & aggressive. Has a child from a previous marriage.

Let's say all the other factors are about the same.

So Woman A has everything a guy could possibly want and Woman B has nothing that a guy would really want.

These polls are usually more difficult than this.

[styloguy]

This one is a no-brainer, woman A wins JUST on the fact she has no kid(s)/baggage. Although a caveat is that, as others have pointed out, a good-looking woman "and" a warm/friendly personality are mutually exclusive and is a misnomer

I've found that the hotter the woman, the more hostile her personality/demeanor, the sweetspot seems to be in the 7-8/10 attractiveness range. 9's and 10's seem to have hostile attitudes as a general rule, perhaps a defensive adaptation they have developed from all the pampering, ass-kissing, guys, and attention they are flooded with their whole life aka "princess syndrome" or "spoiled rich girl syndrome".

[johnd393]

I choose Woman A, or at least a woman who is a little more like A than like B.

[Indianapolis Jones]

What's interesting about this poll is that it's a good study on the objectivity of attractiveness. 75 responses, 72 of which chose the objectively more attractive option.