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Old 06-11-2013, 09:29 AM
 
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i doubt any man i'd be interested in would have to resort to a prostitute, but i have done some not-so-classy things in my past, too, so i don't think by itself it would be a dealbreaker. i'd prefer if he didn't tell me. as long as he's clean etc thats all i need to know about his sexual past
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Old 06-11-2013, 09:30 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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Need more information. Was he married to someone else when he did it? Instant relationship ender.

Lots of men have sex with prostitutes. There wouldn't be so many prostitutes if lots of men didn't use their services.

Lots of men also sleep with skanky bar flies. Both behaviors are a really good reason to use protection with that boyfriend and to insist that he get tested before you start an exclusive relationship.
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Old 06-11-2013, 09:36 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Would that be an instant dealbreaker?
why in the world would you divulge such information? unless, she did a background check and found out you've busted buying tang of the streets. Other than that, see no point in telling the person you're trying to hook up with.
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Old 06-11-2013, 09:40 AM
 
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How about liberty in a foreign country after a combat tour/rotation?

Or just being young and drunk?
Exactly. If its not for some weird deal breaker, I wouldn't care.
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Old 06-11-2013, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Midwest
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Everyone's past is that, in the past. You are here and now. I would hope they've been tested and are healthy. I don't think it's a good idea to bring it but don't lie about it if asked. If he's currently still seeking them out then no, but if we connect and it's in the past, sure, everyone has a past of some sort as I said.
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Old 06-11-2013, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Toronto
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Everyone's past is that, in the past. You are here and now. I would hope they've been tested and are healthy. I don't think it's a good idea to bring it but don't lie about it if asked. If he's currently still seeking them out then no, but if we connect and it's in the past, sure, everyone has a past of some sort as I said.
Prostitute or no, it's best to require testing and use condoms.
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Old 06-11-2013, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Prostitute or no, it's best to require testing and use condoms.
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Old 06-11-2013, 10:05 AM
 
Location: The Great Outdoors
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Uh you like 19 yr olds?

Why do I feel I should run? Lol
I'm 12 so it's okay.
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Old 06-11-2013, 10:07 AM
 
Location: The Great Outdoors
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why in the world would you divulge such information? unless, she did a background check and found out you've busted buying tang of the streets. Other than that, see no point in telling the person you're trying to hook up with.
I didn't mean say that to a one-night stand. I mean someone you might have an LTR with.
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Old 06-11-2013, 10:12 AM
 
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If a man can not compete for females it makes him appear to be a low status-male. Secondly prostitution brings out the truth of female nature. Married/relationships are advance forms of prostitution that women will never admit is true.

With that said, it's better to use escorts. Women's desire for high status males is so crazy to the point it's not worth being with females beyond having sex.

Yet you never mention that men who want to be in long term relationships and married are participating in advanced forms of male prostitution otherwise known as being a Gigilo. I'm sure being a female prostitute is much worse since she is just a ***** yet he is a stud who makes his living off of older rich women.
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