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I am so confused. So you were inside of her but still had your underwear on? Were you in a car or in public or something? WTH?
That poor girl. She must think there is something horribly wrong with either you or her. I assume she is inexperienced too. I feel so sorry that she thinks this is as good as it gets.
My problem is that I tend to come too soon, it's frustrating. I've seen many movies and heard of it lasting 30+ mins. Have tried it by myself and same results: 2-5 mins is my time.
I've already tried 3 times with her and just before it was about to get to the next level, after a couple minutes it happens. Again, I had to excused myself and I'm assuming she must be already wondering what's wrong. Not sure if this is going to get better but as of now it's really bothering me.
Women always seem to get after the young stud in this case. They don't stop and think that, yes, her stuff must be REALLY GOOD!
It could be the other way around like throwing a hotdog down a bowling alley, and after 6 hours she tells you that you better go to work. If you lasted 6 hours withthout muliple Os...something is wrong with her "stuff". Either that or she does ZERO to turn you on and stimulate you.
I assume that you are sorta young. That tends to be a problem for many young men. I've heard enough stories in locker rooms with large groups of men.....like back in high school. That's why women who are cougars actually have cutoff ages. They don't want the 18 year old that can't control his urges yet. As you age, you don't blow when she just touches it. You have more willpower and usually are much better at it.
That's not saying the 6 hour thing like I talked about above^. Something somwhere in the middle is ideal. Learn your own pace and make adjustments until you get it right.
As for the women always complaining that this always seems to happen to them.....take it as a complement. Your "stuff" is AWESOME!
Why is this a problem? At your age, you are like a woman at any age -- you can come multiple times in one session, right? So, once or twice before intercourse, and another once or twice during.
I think you are just confused about how real people have sex. It's not like porn. When people talk about doing for hours and stuff, they are not talking about intercourse for hours. Most sex is not intercourse -- it's cuddling, talking, touching, kissing, playing with hands and mouths, etc.
Guys under 45 can't 'last' more than 10 or 15 minutes, usually, unless that have a medical problem or are on drugs. And that's good, because women get sore!
So, you come in your pants or whatever, and that's fine, and then you make out with her for a while, make her come a few times, and then when you are ready you do some more .
Why is this a problem? At your age, you are like a woman at any age -- you can come multiple times in one session, right? So, once or twice before intercourse, and another once or twice during.
I think you are just confused about how real people have sex. It's not like porn. When people talk about doing for hours and stuff, they are not talking about intercourse for hours. Most sex is not intercourse -- it's cuddling, talking, touching, kissing, playing with hands and mouths, etc.
Guys under 45 can't 'last' more than 10 or 15 minutes, usually, unless that have a medical problem or are on drugs. And that's good, because women get sore!
So, you come in your pants or whatever, and that's fine, and then you make out with her for a while, make her come a few times, and then when you are ready you do some more .
PS - I do heart that video.
Do young men not understand this because they watch too much porn and have never had an honest conversation about sex with someone who knows anything about it? Sad.
I am so confused. So you were inside of her but still had your underwear on? Were you in a car or in public or something? WTH?
The first two times she was at my flat and the last time at her house. I wasn't inside of her but we were humping each other and there was more touching and kissing, which happens before you're about to have sex.
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Originally Posted by zentropa
That poor girl. She must think there is something horribly wrong with either you or her. I assume she is inexperienced too. I feel so sorry that she thinks this is as good as it gets.
She isn't that inexperienced. According to her I'm her 3rd. That was a relieve when she told me this. Had it been a couple numbers more, I would have trouble handling it.
But it will happen next again. What I'll do different is do less foreplay and more on to sex. Though, I'll probably won't last too long but I guess it's worth a try than nothing.
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