Met With My Ex For Coffee & This Is What Happend ! (girl, young)

[JerZ]

I am really glad for you. Most especially I am glad that you came out of this feeling confident! NOTHING beats that! Nothing in the world.

[Mrblacksmith]

Originally Posted by zentropa

If you are moving forward, why do you want your old girlfriend back? That seems counterintuitive.

Simple.
Because i love her & she is an amazing person.
Just because my life is moving towards a good direction means
i should forget about my past.
Well sure i can, but honestly i don't want to.
I have the power to move on and find someone else ecspecially now that im not
sleeping on my mothers couch lol

But i want her and only her.
That has to count for something

[Frihed89]

Could it be that she is simply happy that you have got your life in order and that there is no future other than friends?

[SD4020]

Originally Posted by zentropa

So you are saying in 45 days you have completely turned your life around, gone from immature to mature and changed your personality and attitude.

Wow. Pretty impressive. I wonder if she will buy it.

wonder if he will sustain the "changes?"

Originally Posted by zentropa

If you are moving forward, why do you want your old girlfriend back? That seems counterintuitive.

Exactly.

[Mrblacksmith]

Originally Posted by JerZ

I am really glad for you. Most especially I am glad that you came out of this feeling confident! NOTHING beats that! Nothing in the world.

Thanks Bro ! You're right
Even though we arent together today
I know i'm headed in the right direction
I feel like i'm on top of the world !

[Mrblacksmith]

Originally Posted by Frihed89

Could it be that she is simply happy that you have got your life in order and that there is no future other than friends?

Possibly, but i feel deep in my gut that
it's more than that.

We had a conversation
a couple weeks ago
& i told her i cant be her friend
Either she would have all of me or none of me.
She said she understood and if i couldnt handle it its ok.
I told her instead of being "friends" why dont you let me show you a new side of me
She said Ok and every since its been up hill

So i think she knows i'm not having that "friend" stuff

However, if she does try to play me
and hit my with the friend thing and back out
or move on to someone else.

I'll be okay with that
because atleast i gave it my all you know ?

But i dont think that will happen lol

[Mrblacksmith]

Originally Posted by SD4020

wonder if he will sustain the "changes?"



Exactly.

I will sustain these changes my friend.
& it's not counterintuative because my
goal for these past 5 months has always been to
be with my ex again one day and share my success with her.

I don't need her.
I want her because she's a great person.
It shouldnt matter whether she's my ex or not
If i want to be with her and i love her that's all that
should matter

[zentropa]

So you believe that all the issues that made your relationship unhappy have been...solved? Really?

How long did you date? And how old are you?

[Mrblacksmith]

Originally Posted by zentropa

So you believe that all the issues that made your relationship unhappy have been...solved? Really?

How long did you date? And how old are you?

I can't promise a conflict free relationship because that exist nowhere in the world.
But Yes i do believe all the issues that ended are relationship will never happen again
if we did get together. I really do believe it . I know it because if we did get together there would
be no trace of our old relationship. It would be a totally new revised, reapolsted, 2.0 relationship.

We dated for about 2 years.
I'm 22 she's 25

But i'm not your average 22 year old
I am very mature for my age hence why she
dated me.

[hawaiiancoconut]

what was the reason for this meet up?