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First : I met with my ex yesterdayfor coffee it went well.
Before hand i was initiating all the contact.
Well today that changed.
After work i realized i had a missed call.
Couldn't call back at the time but later in the evening i did.
She didn't answer, but i didn't worry about it.
She called me back shortly after and this is how it went;
I asked her how her day was and if she called me earlier.
She said yea to see how your doing and to see if your ok.
I said ya i'm good.
She said ok because yesterday was a little wierd.
I asked her why and she didn't really explain much.
I told her i didn't feel wierd at all (which i didn't)
and that i'm fine.
She responded in a suprised tone " Oh ok "
I told her it was good seeing her again and when i get back from my trip maybe we could meet up again.
She said " Uhhh.... Yea Sure !...Then said "Yeaup" in a funny english accent that we do together.
I also asked her what she was up to this weekend she said " i might go to this bar in hermosa for my coworkers b-day everyones going so i guess i'll just stop by to say hi. I won't stay long or anything"
Now i'm not a genius but i think that has an underlying message. Why the hell would she have to tell me i wont stay long and all that crap. She only told me those things when we were together to ensure that i wouldnt be waiting up all night. Or that shed rather hang with me.
what do you think of that ?
Second:
& this is kind of embarassing but i often fantasize bout my ex.
When i masterbate all i think about is her.
I don't mind it because she's beautiful and worth letting one go to(god i cant believe i just said that smh )
but is it normal ?
Last edited by Mrblacksmith; 06-13-2013 at 11:00 PM..
No its not normal to think about one woman only sexually. Guys are programmed by nature to spread the seed.
Most guys including myself think about many different women sexually.
No its not normal to think about one woman only sexually. Guys are programmed by nature sexually to spread the seed.
Most guys including myself think about many different women sexually.
I mean i'll watch porn and fantasize about other women but most of the time she'll pop up.
Is it not normal in a bad way ? Or does it just mean i'm really attracted to her ?
First : I met with my ex yesterdayfor coffee it went well.
Before hand i was initiating all the contact.
Well today that changed.
After work i realized i had a missed call.
Couldn't call back at the time but later in the evening i did.
She didn't answer, but i didn't worry about it.
She called me back shortly after and this is how it went;
I asked her how her day was and if she called me earlier.
She said yea to see how your doing and to see if your ok.
I said ya i'm good.
She said ok because yesterday was a little wierd.
I asked her why and she didn't really explain much.
I told her i didn't feel wierd at all (which i didn't)
and that i'm fine.
She responded in a suprised tone " Oh ok "
I told her it was good seeing her again and when i get back from my trip maybe we could meet up again.
She said " Uhhh.... Yea Sure !...Then said "Yeaup" in a funny english accent that we do together.
I also asked her what she was up to this weekend she said " i might go to this bar in hermosa for my coworkers b-day everyones going so i guess i'll just stop by to say hi. I won't stay long or anything"
Now i'm not a genius but i think that has an underlying message. Why the hell would she have to tell me i wont stay long and all that crap. She only told me those things when we were together to ensure that i wouldnt be waiting up all night. Or that shed rather hang with me.
what do you think of that ?
Second:
& this is kind of embarassing but i often fantasize bout my ex. When i masterbate all i think about is her.
I don't mind it because she's beautiful and worth letting one go to(god i cant believe i just said that smh )
but is it normal ?
First, why does there have to be a specific reason behind everything or anything an ex girlfriend says? Can't she just speak and not have a motive behind her words. Perhaps she is just trying to be nice or maybe she sensed an awkward silence coming and stuck that in there. Maybe she answered your question about how long she was going to be at the bar before you asked it. It is simply part of the conversation she was having with you, accept it for what it is.
Second, this is WAY more information than is really necessary to put into the wide world of a public forum.
First, why does there have to be a specific reason behind everything or anything an ex girlfriend says? Can't she just speak and not have a motive behind her words. Perhaps she is just trying to be nice or maybe she sensed an awkward silence coming and stuck that in there. Maybe she answered your question about how long she was going to be at the bar before you asked it. It is simply part of the conversation she was having with you, accept it for what it is.
Second, this is WAY more information than is really necessary to put into the wide world of a public forum.
You're right. I could just be over analzying. But trust me my Ex is the Queen Of misconception.
Theres ALWAYS. A meaning behind something. She's knoes damn well i wasn't going to ask her how long
because i don't care. Plus it's none of my buisness.
So lets assume their is an underlying message.
What could it mean ?
& maybe youre right again
But who will i talk to it about ?
My bestfriend ?
My mother ?
My Manager ?
I'd rather ask complete strangers who know nothing about me so i don't get judged
You're right. I could just be over analzying. But trust me my Ex is the Queen Of misconception.
Theres ALWAYS. A meaning behind something. She's knoes damn well i wasn't going to ask her how long
because i don't care. Plus it's none of my buisness.
& maybe youre right again
But who will i talk to it about ?
My bestfriend ?
My mother ?
My Manager ?
I'd rather ask complete strangers who know nothing about me so i don't get judged
There you have it and you have a very valid point because we do not know you but we do not know your girlfriend either and you do. So, only you can guess there is a meaning behind what she said.
Your ex girlfriend knows if there is a meaning behind what she said, so ask her.
I am curious though, if she is the Queen of Misconception why are you meeting with her in the first place?
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