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So she posted something that made you "LOSE" control and you let "LOOSE" your feelings just to get back at here "because she started it"......
Exactly.
There's only so much maturity you can have.
When someone kicks you while your down thats just cruel
Exspecially in the public eye. & Someone has alot of followers
Nope. I was saying wow at the difference between your initial OP and the one you posted about e mailing your ex gf. You totally loved her yesterday and you hate her today.
I don't need to judge you. You need to judge yourself..
Sometimes drastic changes call for drastic measures.
I'm not judging myself. I know what i did was right by me
And that's all that matters
Sometimes drastic changes call for drastic measures.
I'm not judging myself. I know what i did was right by me
And that's all that matters
In your initial post you remarked how she could never be with you again because of what you did to her, or something to that effect. I am not looking right at the post so it is not an exact quote.
Exactly what did you do to her? If there was even an ounce of a chance of her being with you again piddling around in the back of her mind I bet its gone now!
Looks like she made a good choice of not being with you if your e mail to her reflects the way you normally treat her or people in general.
In your initial post you remarked how she could never be with you again because of what you did to her, or something to that effect. I am not looking right at the post so it is not an exact quote.
Exactly what did you do to her? If there was even an ounce of a chance of her being with you again piddling around in the back of her mind I bet its gone now!
Looks like she made a good choice of not being with you if your e mail to her reflects the way you normally treat her or people in general.
I treat everyone with respect exspecially women. I grew up with women.
My mother, my sister, and my aunt. & they always taught me to respect women
but never let a woman disrespect you or anyone for that matter.
It doesn't matter wat i did honestly
The reason i'm so furious is that she strung me along this whole time.
She wanted her cake and ate it too.
Made it seem like she wanted to be with me but was banging other dudes.
That's what ticked me off.
That's what provocked me to loose my cool
I treat everyone with respect exspecially women. I grew up with women.
My mother, my sister, and my aunt. & they always taught me to respect women
but never let a woman disrespect you or anyone for that matter.
It doesn't matter wat i did honestly The reason i'm so furious is that she strung me along this whole time.
She wanted her cake and ate it too.
Made it seem like she wanted to be with me but was banging other dudes.
That's what ticked me off.
That's what provocked me to loose my cool
I hate liars. I felt betrayed and played.
Hang on.
Didn't you just say that you had (happily) accepted friendship with her?
That you had accepted her feelings regarding you and ending the romance part?
Then you get angry and go "No Contact" like it's a thing you're punishing her with?
Then now aren't you getting angry with us, eg "give me a break" - your ex gave you a break and she ends up with a nasty abusive email!
He could have taken the high road and been polite in telling her he was done contacting her and he didn't want her to call him anymore or text him or anything.
But he didn't, and that's OK. It's his choice. And does it really matter what she thinks of him now ? The relationship is over.
You're going through a grieving period, dude. It's normal to have all kinds of negative emotions. But, in time, it will pass. If you get really down, you can always reach out for help, as you have done here. But maybe a good friend or family member, a therapist or a mental health forum would be less judging than this place, which can be pretty brutal in piling on. It's a pack mentality here. Someone's down ... and the wolves come in to feed on the judgment feast. Don't worry, I've been there. They've piled on me, plenty of times. But there are good people who give you good feedback here. You just weed out the judgemental posts, and pay more attention to the posts that are helpful.
I treat everyone with respect exspecially women. I grew up with women.
My mother, my sister, and my aunt. & they always taught me to respect women
but never let a woman disrespect you or anyone for that matter.
It doesn't matter wat i did honestly
The reason i'm so furious is that she strung me along this whole time.
She wanted her cake and ate it too.
Made it seem like she wanted to be with me but was banging other dudes.
That's what ticked me off.
That's what provocked me to loose my cool
I hate liars. I felt betrayed and played.
You're right to feel that way. From here on, take the high road, and ignore her completely. She now knows you're never going to want to be with her again. So, you don't need to say another word to her. Be thankful there were no kids involved in this relationship, because then it really would suck right now.
Didn't you just say that you had (happily) accepted friendship with her?
That you had accepted her feelings regarding you and ending the romance part?
Then you get angry and go "No Contact" like it's a thing you're punishing her with?
Then now aren't you getting angry with us, eg "give me a break" - your ex gave you a break and she ends up with a nasty abusive email!
You have it all wrong.
I went no contact a month ago to heal.
The hole time she was contacting me but i stayed strong
Untill she offered a fake friendship then ya i acepted but i told her
i can't just be your friend. I love you and want to be with you
So understand that i'm going into this with intentions that we "will"
reconcile if thats not what you want to d olet me know so i can move on.
She said "Ok"
So before you go juging me about my actions and my short tempered posts.
Think about both sides and how i could be feeling and what she did to me.
It takes too
Also, I don't understand what your getting at .
What's your point ?
What's done is done.
I can't change the past.
I don't want to.
I'm happy for what i did and i don't regret it al all not even a little.
I'm not angry with anyone.
I just think positive feedback comes a dyhme a dozen on here.
I keep trying to give you guys a chance but everytime i get ganged up on about things that shouldn't matter.
What is your point ?
Are you trying to make me feel guilty ?
Do you think i will have a change of heart and apologizze to her or better yet to you ?
No. So why don't you give me advice about the future.
the past is irrelevent . The relationship is over.
She doesn't care about me & sure i'm angry now but in time i wont care either.
That's that.
You're right to feel that way. From here on, take the high road, and ignore her completely. She now knows you're never going to want to be with her again. So, you don't need to say another word to her. Be thankful there were no kids involved in this relationship, because then it really would suck right now.
THANK YOU ! i will do just that i appreciate your geniune honesty and great advice.
Hard to come by nowadays. I'll also look into theraphy
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But there are good people who give you good feedback here. You just weed out the judgemental posts, and pay more attention to the posts that are helpful.
I'll let the OP take it from here. 
