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Old 06-16-2013, 11:25 PM
 
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True enough...although it took them literally years until either Mary Jane or Lois showed interested in them, right? Weren't the whole first 3 seasons of "Lois and Clark: The New Adventures of Superman" for example portraying a situation where Lois was pretty mean, curt, and stand-offish to Clark, and didn't show any interest in him until way later? (My point being, that there were very long stretches in Peter and Clark's lives where neither one of their leading ladies was remotely interested in them romantically at all )
Lois was always interested in Clark in that series. Women avoid you and don't talk to you if they are not interested. They will bother you, find ways to talk to you and even hit you. Women don't ask men out, so they have to do other things in order to tell a guy that they are interested. A co-worker of mine was always bothering me, sending me random messages, but also criticized me and made fun of me at times. I always knew she was doing this because she liked me. The only reason why I didn't ask her out was because she had a bf and co worker relationships are risky. After a year she told me she broke up with her bf, I asked her out, she said yes and I scored. Women will bother you and even be mean to you if they like you. I know it's strange but they're women.
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Old 06-17-2013, 01:10 AM
 
Location: London, U.K.
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Yes it does. They are usually too nice, or don't have any social skills.
Or (speaking from experience) no money. Beautiful women are high maintenance.
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Old 06-17-2013, 01:57 AM
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Or (speaking from experience) no money. Beautiful women are high maintenance.
arch is right...i lived with a high maintenance girl for a year, she wouldnt shovel snow in the winter, she wouldnt chop or stack wood for the woodstove, or clean her own fish,,, and the mastery of her cooking skills,,,was how to warm something up in a microwave,,,
i tried to look past all that cause she looked good in the hot tub... but that only lasts for so long.
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:11 AM
 
Location: Toronto
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arch is right...i lived with a high maintenance girl for a year, she wouldnt shovel snow in the winter, she wouldnt chop or stack wood for the woodstove, or clean her own fish,,, and the mastery of her cooking skills,,,was how to warm something up in a microwave,,,
i tried to look past all that cause she looked good in the hot tub... but that only lasts for so long.
Not all beautiful women are high maintenance and useless. The beautiful woman you dated was high maintenance and useless.
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:20 AM
 
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This is why I so heavily discount the "just have confidence" advice given to adult men who never experienced that early socialization and "success" while they were growing up as kids. If you wake up every day and see the sky is blue, you're going to expect the sky is blue the next morning you wake up. If someone tells you the sky is actually red, no amount of "confidence" will be convincing enough to make you believe the sky is red until you wake up and see a red sky.
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:51 AM
 
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Gals not liking you even if you were really confident and assertive is probably true in your case however it likely isn't generally applicable. I know many ugly guys that became confident and assertive and got ugly gals as partner as a result.
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Old 06-17-2013, 06:09 AM
 
Location: ON, Canada
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Clark Kent and Peter Parker have a number of women in comics chasing after them because not only are they fairly good looking, but they are mysterious and act like they don't need women around them. I sometimes feel exactly like Peter Parker. I come across as a person who is so busy but women still come too me for whatever reason. Peter Parker has Mary Jane and Clark Kent has Lois Lane by the way.

As for the OP, I can empathize with you. You're right, women don't care about personality or confidence if you don't pass their attraction test. The only way you can combat this is making a whole lot of money or framer yourself as a man with money. My personal trainer said that girl doesn't date black men, I told him tell her I'm a backup wide receiver for this college team. Next thing you know this woman who supposedly was racist and didnt like black men came up to me because she thought I had the potential to make a lot of money.

Chuck Daly (Golf), Dennis Rodman and wilt chamberlain slept with a lot of women during their professional careers. They obviously were not attractive individuals, however they saw green. I know the girl I'm somewhat seeing right now will blow me off and turn on me with a guy who may not look as attractive but is loaded.

I don't care what women say and they can deny it until they reach heaven. The majority of women will choose an unattractive male who is loaded with confidence, rather than a good looking mysterious guy with a unique personality like myself.

The other thing is that their will always be someone out their in this work who appreciates and likes you for you are. I know...
If you understood anything about attraction, it's not a test, and it encompasses more than how someone looks.

And describing yourself as "mysterious" with a "unique personality", those aren't viewed by all as positive traits.
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Old 06-17-2013, 08:22 AM
 
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If you understood anything about attraction, it's not a test, and it encompasses more than how someone looks.

And describing yourself as "mysterious" with a "unique personality", those aren't viewed by all as positive traits.
All women like men who don't necessarily give them attention if they are somewhat physically attracted to them. The OP and what Brad Piff said is is the flat out truth. Its science and that black and white. when he was referencing the sky.

Men and society make it very complicated but there is nothing, nothing you can do to get women to like you romantically if they are not attracted to you unless you make a whole lot of money. Maybe with money women overlook a mans attraction and focus on what he may provide. Like possibly changing the blue sky with all the money he has. You see women dating old multi millionaires each and every single day. Is it because of love and attraction? She will probably be banging the cute bad boy on the side.

This is why I don't pay any attention to profiles if I use online dating. Everything is about the pics. If women don't find your pics appealing they won't respond. Don't let women manipulate you into think that their is more to looks. With women as someone pointed out its looks and about 3000 other things. If she is attracted she's going to find another reason to not want to date me, like the color of my skin and use that reasoning in her mind to not take a chance because I genuinely think women in general don't like men and if they had it their way they would remain single, childless for the rest of their lives. One of my girlfriends said all women are crazy. They don't really like men subconsciously men, but in their minds they need men in order to survive .
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Old 06-17-2013, 08:29 AM
 
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All women like men who don't necessarily give them attention if they are somewhat physically attracted to them. The OP and what Brad Piff said is is the flat out truth. Its science and that black and white. when he was referencing the sky.

Men and society make it very complicated but there is nothing, nothing you can do to get women to like you romantically if they are not attracted to you unless you make a whole lot of money. Maybe with money women overlook a mans attraction and focus on what he may provide. Like possibly changing the blue sky with all the money he has. You see women dating old multi millionaires each and every single day. Is it because of love and attraction? She will probably be banging the cute bad boy on the side.

This is why I don't pay any attention to profiles if I use online dating. Everything is about the pics. If women don't find your pics appealing they won't respond. Don't let women manipulate you into think that their is more to looks. With women as someone pointed out its looks and about 3000 other things. If she is attracted she's going to find another reason to not want to date me, like the color of my skin and use that reasoning in her mind to not take a chance because I genuinely think women in general don't like men and if they had it their way they would remain single, childless for the rest of their lives. One of my girlfriends said all women are crazy. They don't really like men subconsciously men, but in their minds they need men in order to survive .
This just makes me laugh.....perception is everything
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Old 06-17-2013, 08:29 AM
 
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All women like men who don't necessarily give them attention if they are somewhat physically attracted to them. The OP and what Brad Piff said is is the flat out truth. Its science and that black and white. when he was referencing the sky.

Men and society make it very complicated but there is nothing, nothing you can do to get women to like you romantically if they are not attracted to you unless you make a whole lot of money. Maybe with money women overlook a mans attraction and focus on what he may provide. Like possibly changing the blue sky with all the money he has. You see women dating old multi millionaires each and every single day. Is it because of love and attraction? She will probably be banging the cute bad boy on the side.

This is why I don't pay any attention to profiles if I use online dating. Everything is about the pics. If women don't find your pics appealing they won't respond. Don't let women manipulate you into think that their is more to looks. With women as someone pointed out its looks and about 3000 other things. If she is attracted she's going to find another reason to not want to date me, like the color of my skin and use that reasoning in her mind to not take a chance because I genuinely think women in general don't like men and if they had it their way they would remain single, childless for the rest of their lives. One of my girlfriends said all women are crazy. They don't really like men subconsciously men, but in their minds they need men in order to survive .
I'm unsure how a gal wanting more than attraction to date a guy is indicative of not liking guys or being crazy. Care to explain?
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