Brother-in-law got tricked into getting this girl pregnant!!! (movies, couples, social)

[foma]

Originally Posted by miu

willowtree22 print this story out and give it to your BIL. This is from the best of craigslist. I'm sorry he didn't read this before he slept with that woman.

OMG, I LOVE craigslist. That guy - although appropriate in this situation I suppose - was kind of a bastard!

[bluegrassgirl]

I haven't read all of the posts in this thread. However, no one gets pregnant without both parts involved. A woman should take care of her business and make sure the guy takes care of his. A man should make sure he's taking care of his own business too - he's going to have to live with the ramifications if he doesn't. You play with fire - you get burned.

[bailey19782000]

oh definately!

[willowtree22]

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That being said....I am still amazed at the amount of women falling for these men who have NO intention of ever speaking to them again, let alone being a father to a baby that may have been conceived after a night of unprotected sex. It goes both ways. Both men and women are the "victims" of a con game that had been played for ages.[/quote]


I Agree.. BUT if a women SAYS, "don't worry about it" and you THINK you can trust this parson.. then u find out shes pregnant.. Any rational person would say... "shes F*CKING LIED TO ME, I CAN'T TRUST HER"

[shuke]

Didn't she say something like, "5 percent chance"? That's plenty to worry about, imo.

[4"L's"]

That being said....I am still amazed at the amount of women falling for these men who have NO intention of ever speaking to them again, let alone being a father to a baby that may have been conceived after a night of unprotected sex. It goes both ways. Both men and women are the "victims" of a con game that had been played for ages.[/quote]


I Agree.. BUT if a women SAYS, "don't worry about it" and you THINK you can trust this parson.. then u find out shes pregnant.. Any rational person would say... "shes F*CKING LIED TO ME, I CAN'T TRUST HER" [/quote]

I would never trust anyone in a situation like that, even if that were true and she could not get pregnant.....what about oh....STD! I guess the point people are trying to make here is you have to at some point stop blaming others and be responsible for your self, especially if you are an adult!

[miu]

I Agree.. BUT if a women SAYS, "don't worry about it" and you THINK you can trust this parson.. then u find out shes pregnant.. Any rational person would say... "shes F*CKING LIED TO ME, I CAN'T TRUST HER"

So willowtree22... by your own logic, you are saying that your BIL is not a rational person. Be like his grandmother and get mad at your BIL also for being a dumbass with this woman.

[Rance]

And ease up on the "F" word.

[willowtree22]

MIU- TOTALLY MAKES SENSE!!!!!!!!!!! Both to blame.. i guess i just feel bad because... shes trying really hard to TAKE OVER his life now... i mean she now stays in his Apartment.. QUIT- school and work.. he works 7 days/wk=2jobs... because she has convinsed him that she NEEDS to relax.. i mean WHAT A CROCK OF SH*T!!! Im sorry but i know PLENTY of women who have WORKED throughout their pregnancy!! honestly if u meet her you could see right through her BUT BIL is emotionally attached to child because HE thinks its his.. so he wants to give his kid a good childhood... BUT BIL thinks he need to STAY with this B*TCH to make it a good childhood.... I actually think thats WORST than splitting up.. but knowing her she will prob. do something psycho- BUT she does WANT a FREE MEAL TICKET>> once again if u saw her it is SOOOO obvious... and being me( who has strong views and VALUES) i really want to CALL her out on it...

[Rance]

Well then do it. But be prepared for it to backfire in your face. Your BIL may not be to happy about someone sticking their nose into his business.