Brother-in-law got tricked into getting this girl pregnant!!!

[miu]

Yeah. Don't let this woman bring you down. And every time I read one of your posts about how awful she is, I imagine your face all angry and twisted up. You don't want those types of unhappy lines in your face to turn into permanent wrinkles!! And your blood pressure is probably elevated too.

Seriously though, all this anger is not good for anyone. Not you (and your health), but that includes the rest of the family too. People live much longer when they are happy. Yes, I get pissed at people too, but I refuse to let them wind me up and have me die of a stroke just because they got me so mad. Really what's done is done and move on and stop thinking evil thoughts about her. Do this for your husband's family. It's not your job to drive her away. The only people that can really scold him or her might be the parents or grandparents as your BIL's elders, but not you. Plus what does your rage get you? Your husband's family is going to roll their eyes and say look at the women in these guys lives. You have the one that got pregnant to get him, and then the other brother's wife turned into an evil shrew. Trust me, they don't want any more of this bad woman drama in their family. Just be nice and be the awesome DIL that you usually are.

[christina0001]

There is no excuse in this day and age for an unplanned pregnancy. We all know where babies come from, and there is so much information out there regarding family planning. Be grateful your brother didn't contract HIV or some other STD. If you do the deed, be prepared to handle the consequences. I think some men are so desperate for sex, they will agree to anything in the heat of the moment, even put themselves at tremendous risk.
You might as well do your best to get along with this woman. Like her or not, she is going to be the mother of your niece or nephew, and you'll need to get along with her for a very long time - or risk not getting to have much of a relationship with the child.

[HIF]

What in the world does this have to do with you? Why are you so angry about the whole thing?

Your BIL was stupid and made a very expensive mistake. The woman was a liar.

You are right, there is nothing you can do about it, so stop interjecting yourself into the situation.

[Miborn]

Originally Posted by christina0001

There is no excuse in this day and age for an unplanned pregnancy. We all know where babies come from, and there is so much information out there regarding family planning. Be grateful your brother didn't contract HIV or some other STD. If you do the deed, be prepared to handle the consequences. I think some men are so desperate for sex, they will agree to anything in the heat of the moment, even put themselves at tremendous risk.
You might as well do your best to get along with this woman. Like her or not, she is going to be the mother of your niece or nephew, and you'll need to get along with her for a very long time - or risk not getting to have much of a relationship with the child.

Yeah agree he should consider himself lucky that all he got was a kid.
Sometimes he will think that is going to kill him maybe even wish it but it is not as bad as HIV or Hepatitis.

[odonnell]

she got pregnant, that will teach her to lie on her back and take a joke