Brother-in-law got tricked into getting this girl pregnant!!! (hubby, children, friend)

[theqbaby]

Originally Posted by willowtree22

he told his x (who i still talk to ) to not call him because it makes the knocked up girl mad. do u think thats OK?

He broke up with her to be with this other girl (ultimately) .
Now he has a baby on the way with this "new" girl.
That should be enough for the "old" girlfriend to not call.
The writing is on the wall.

For the best interest of all involved, "old " girlfriend should not make contact.
It would be in her (old girlfriend) best interest not to contact him.

He'd be the last one I would be calling !

[MonaLisaVito]

Originally Posted by willowtree22

I hate this girl I think shes sick for bring a child into this world corrupt world of ours where ppl can have kids before marriage.. i think my generation is f***** up. i really do.. But i think blame should be put WHERE it belongs... all these desprate b****** should be called out on what they are doing.

If this is how you feel, then you should be upset with him JUST AS MUCH AS HER for having sex before he is married.

I understand you being upset, but you are taking this so personal. Maybe you should stay out of it and concentrate on your own marriage.

[willowtree22]

shes 8 months now... they has an altrasound saw a penis=boy

[Jasmin71]

Originally Posted by theqbaby

Please do.

I think... and just my opinion,
But maybe you/he/she need to stop thinking about where to place the blame, and start thinking on how to take care of the situation.
In reality, it doesn't MATTER who's to blame. It is spilt milk (so to speak)

Now how and what are they going to do about prenatal care/DNA and raising this baby?
I would not suggest that he jumps into marriage with her because she is pregnant. But I would urge him to be supportive of the pregnancy, have the DNA, and if it is his, to man up and take responsibility for his child.

How far along is she?
How do they know its a boy?


I bet he doesn't make this mistake again ! Therefore being a VERY good lesson learned.

100% good post

[willowtree22]

his x and him were together 7 years! they were best friends.. they were broken up bf and stayed friends... i dont see y they can't be friends now

[Jasmin71]

so this happen 8 month ago and just now you get upset? Now I am really confused...

[Jasmin71]

Originally Posted by willowtree22

his x and him were together 7 years! they were best friends.. they were broken up bf and stayed friends... i dont see y they can't be friends now

Ummmm he is together with this other girl, got her prego.... I say this should be the sure sign right there.

Sounds like he is playing..

[willowtree22]

no ive been upset since it happened.. i have just learned of this posting comments online so now i want to vent..

[theqbaby]

Originally Posted by willowtree22

his x and him were together 7 years! they were best friends.. they were broken up bf and stayed friends... i dont see y they can't be friends now

Well, in most experiences, a friendship of this nature will never work out.
This too, is a lesson that needs to be learned with experience.
My question would be.........
If they were together so long, and such good friends........ how did this other woman influence him so much to believe her.
Makes me think that HE wasn't as faithful as he is made out to be.

I have been married a long long time (and I am not that old). I can assure you, that if anyone of my "friends" came to me and told me, my husband was cheating, I would find out the facts BEFORE just taking their word and acting on it.

[Jasmin71]

qbaby,,,, yet again,, I agree with ya

willow. Let me ask you this.. this is youre brother in law. WHY is this SO upsetting to you ? This does not really effect you...
From what I been reading here this whole family is something you could take to Jerry Springer?