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Unread 11-06-2007, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Bronx, NY
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Default Would you date a stripper?

Would you date a stripper?

Would you seriously date one, or just have a fun casual thing?

What would you do?

A little backstory: I'm going on a date with one this week. I met her at the gym through a friend. When I first met her I did not know she was a stripper but I told my friend that I thought she was attractive. About a day or two later he told me she was a stripper. My friend then basically told her that I thought she was cute and in return she let him know that she was checking me out too, so she gave me her number. Hence the question.

Personally I don't care. At this point in my life I happen to not really be looking for anything serious anyway so I wouldn't mind some fun. I'm curious to hear what other guys and even the ladies have to say about it.

 
Unread 11-06-2007, 01:16 PM
 
Location: in drifts of snow wherever you go
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Originally Posted by NooYowkur81 View Post
Would you date a stripper?

Would you seriously date one, or just have a fun casual thing?

What would you do?

A little backstory: I'm going on a date with one this week. I met her at the gym through a friend. When I first met her I did not know she was a stripper but I told my friend that I thought she was attractive. About a day or two later he told me she was a stripper. My friend then basically told her that I thought she was cute and in return she let him know that she was checking me out too, so she gave me her number. Hence the question.

Personally I don't care. At this point in my life I happen to not really be looking for anything serious anyway so I wouldn't mind some fun. I'm curious to hear what other guys and even the ladies have to say about it.
if you don't care, then why are you asking us?

to date or not to date a stripper. it depends on so many things. are you looking for that nice girl next store to marry and raise kids with? or are you looking for someone to have a good time with? do you feel comfortable introducing her to mom and bringing her into your social circle? do you feel comfortable with her showing her body to other men? questions you have to ask yourself.

greenie
 
Unread 11-06-2007, 01:16 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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I have,one turned out to be a flake,the other was a decent hearted woman.

I also have a dear friend who was a dancer till recently,now she sells her own art.She is actually straight laced when it comes to sex,she stays commited to her ex who actually they are back together again.

Besides the stigma of the profession,dancers are like any other women,with different moral codes,baggage,and personalities.
 
Unread 11-06-2007, 01:17 PM
 
Location: New England
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In order to voice a fully-informed opinion on this, I would need to see a pic of the stripper.
 
Unread 11-06-2007, 01:24 PM
 
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Default Yes, a pix is worth a thousand words.......

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In order to voice a fully-informed opinion on this, I would need to see a pic of the stripper.
A lot depends on exactly what she is like in other areas. Type personality, etc. The occupation is probably like what most peeps do, there to make the money. No need to be any different than say a nurse, only she probably sees the other peeps naked, not they see her. Same old, same old. All what it takes.

Also might depend on her ability to compartmentize the job. Might be like an air traffic control dude. Do you really want her bringing home a lot of pent up stress????

Wait a minute, does she have to let the hair down too as part of the job. H,mmm how does one unwind in that case????
 
Unread 11-06-2007, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Bronx, NY
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if you don't care, then why are you asking us?
Like I said before I am curious to see what others think about it.
 
Unread 11-06-2007, 01:52 PM
 
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Go for it, it's not as if you're asking her to marry you. Just go out and have some fun. Don't treat her like a stripper though. Treat her with respect.
 
Unread 11-06-2007, 02:11 PM
 
Location: In the sunshine on a ship with a plank
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Not likely- most male strippers are gay so they wouldn't like me anyway.
 
Unread 11-06-2007, 02:12 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Originally Posted by NooYowkur81 View Post
Would you date a stripper?

Would you seriously date one, or just have a fun casual thing?

What would you do?

A little backstory: I'm going on a date with one this week. I met her at the gym through a friend. When I first met her I did not know she was a stripper but I told my friend that I thought she was attractive. About a day or two later he told me she was a stripper. My friend then basically told her that I thought she was cute and in return she let him know that she was checking me out too, so she gave me her number. Hence the question.

Personally I don't care. At this point in my life I happen to not really be looking for anything serious anyway so I wouldn't mind some fun. I'm curious to hear what other guys and even the ladies have to say about it.
no i would not thanks for your interest.
 
Unread 11-06-2007, 02:14 PM
 
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Quote:
Originally Posted by NooYowkur81 View Post
Would you date a stripper?

Would you seriously date one, or just have a fun casual thing?

What would you do?

A little backstory: I'm going on a date with one this week. I met her at the gym through a friend. When I first met her I did not know she was a stripper but I told my friend that I thought she was attractive. About a day or two later he told me she was a stripper. My friend then basically told her that I thought she was cute and in return she let him know that she was checking me out too, so she gave me her number. Hence the question.

Personally I don't care. At this point in my life I happen to not really be looking for anything serious anyway so I wouldn't mind some fun. I'm curious to hear what other guys and even the ladies have to say about it.
Depends on where this women is from.
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