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This is more of a drug problem than an intimacy problem. Don't beat yourself up over the symptoms of his problem. He refuses to see the connection between his drug use and his lack of performance and instead insults you. I'm for legalizing marijuana but like any drug, there's use and then there's abuse.
its not the weed that is the problem. this guy is an insensitive douche who does not value or respect you. now if you don't want to be involved with a stoner that's your own preference and you certainly have a right to choose that, but if it wasn't weed he was putting before her it would be something else. there may very well be a correlative thing where emotionally unhealthy people are more likely to be stoners, but there are also plenty of stoners who are perfectly capable of being in a loving relationship and putting down the bowl for a while to spend quality time with a loved one. i'm not a fan of weed myself, but my past two serious relationships have been with potheads. one was a complete ******* and the current one is a very loving and caring individual.
Do you really want to be in a relationship with a guy who routinely smokes so much pot that he cannot sexually perform? I have no doubt it affects his life in many other ways as well, you could probably do a lot better than that.
I suggest you dump limp biscuit, and get a real man.
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