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I never get intimate early and if they don't like it, they can suck it. I don't care what he thinks. Never let a man tell you what is "normal" when it comes to that. Do what you want, when you want.
I can wait indefinitely, for intimacy -- in my early 30's and still 100% celibate, here For me in my own case, I would personally much prefer to save and share that special experience with someone that I was already officially married to first.
I can wait a long time if I'm enjoying her company. If I'm not enjoying her company it won't get to that point anyway. I let the woman set the pace when it comes to the bouncy bouncy and when she wants it. Usually, it's 3-5 dates.
Do whatever makes you happy. If he doesn't want to wait then he's not for you. Many people don't like waiting and they have reasoning as well. Just, different reasoning that you.
Don't feel pressured to speed things up you want to. At the same time, if you do wait, and he waits just for you, and then he doesn't like how things are sexually, he may feel obligated to stay with you even though he doesn't want to because you waited so much "for him" and you must have really felt that strong of an attraction to him.
I want to feel comfortable with the person, but I can't put a time limit on that. I do know that I've never felt comfortable within the first 2 or 3 dates and if a guy pressures me or throws a fit I have zero issues whatsoever walking away. I think the expectation and being demanding says more about the person than the actual act of sex.
Besides, I really like the kissy, holding hands, hugging etc. phase before sex enters the picture.
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For me in my own case, I would personally much prefer to save and share that special experience with someone that I was already officially married to first.
