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Old 07-01-2013, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Ok then, say that, instead of directing virtually all your posts into bashing men. As you mentioned before, you have trust issues. I understand, but don't hold my gender at all above the other.
Or, I'll just go ahead and keep sharing my opinions and if you think that's 'bashing men' then that's your problem.
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Old 07-01-2013, 07:54 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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Ok then, say that, instead of directing virtually all your posts into bashing men. As you mentioned before, you have trust issues. I understand, but don't hold my gender at all above the other.
You're not the only one who thinks she does this. She evidently doesn't see it though. People can come off very different on cd than they are in real life, so hopefully she doesn't come off as a man hater in her everyday life. I know I don't come off as pathetic in real life as I do on here, so I'll give JetJockey the benefit of the doubt.
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Old 07-01-2013, 07:59 AM
 
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You're not the only one who thinks she does this. She evidently doesn't see it though. People can come off very different on cd than they are in real life, so hopefully she doesn't come off as a man hater in her everyday life. I know I don't come off as pathetic in real life as I do on here, so I'll give JetJockey the benefit of the doubt.
Of course I see it...I just don't agree that it's 'bashing' since I'm just sharing the direct experiences I've had in my life. I mean, a lot of your posts talk about how horrible women are and that they're all fat and have multiple children but I don't consider that 'bashing'...it's just your experience.
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Old 07-01-2013, 08:01 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Why on Earth are you with this guy, OP? He sounds like a real winner.
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Old 07-01-2013, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Europe
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I am faithfull and I don't tolerate anything from him either.
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Old 07-01-2013, 08:05 AM
 
Location: NC
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...right before he proceeded to try meeting up with girls on dating sites behind my back.
Is there even a question here?

The things you listed in your OP, I don't do, but "committed relationship" is defined by the two people. Sounds like this is not what you agreed to, so what you have there is a lying, POS that you can't trust.

What more do you need to know?
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Old 07-01-2013, 09:15 AM
 
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-following hot girls on Twitter who live in your city, I think is not faithful.
-paying girls to take their clothes off on cam for you is NOT faithful.
-going on strictly platonic section of Craigslist to look for attractive girls to hang out with 'platonically' is not faithful.
-specifically going to get an 'erotic massage' is NOT faithful.

men, do you do these things? my boyfriend has done them. i have been completely faithful to him. is it too much, in reality, to expect the same level of loyalty from a man, considering that man is both attractive and has his life together financially (it seems the richer men get, and especially the more famous they are, the more likely they are to philander).
I don't agree with your definition of "not faithful". None of that crosses the red line although that doesn't mean it should be acceptable to you.

A few questions. Are you still with this guy and do you want to remain with this guy? Why? Could it be the qualities you now criticize are the ones that attracted you to him originally?

Is he open with you about these activities or is it something he hides and lies to you about?

Has he always been like this and he is just finding it hard to change from a single playboy to a committed boyfriend? Or is it something new? I'm wondering if this indicates he is reluctant to give up his old ways and maybe not so sure about you, or he was all into you but has grown unhappy or bored. In other words, how is the relationship trending.

Finally, and be honest, is he as interested in a committed relationship with you as you are with him? Did he pursue you to be his only gf or did you push him into it?
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Old 07-01-2013, 09:34 AM
 
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Or, I'll just go ahead and keep sharing my opinions and if you think that's 'bashing men' then that's your problem.
Maybe your issues have been brought on by yourself and the men you choose to associate with?

I know great women and men. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Your obvious biases and generalizations are very immature.


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Old 07-01-2013, 09:50 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Maybe your issues have been brought on by yourself and the men you choose to associate with?

I know great women and men. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Your obvious biases and generalizations are very immature.


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I didn't necessarily 'choose' to associate myself with these guys, they've mostly been coworkers or people I went to school with. I work in a male dominated field so I'm simply around more men by virtue of employment and education.

I know great women and men as well, but that doesn't discount the bad ones.
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Old 07-01-2013, 10:11 AM
 
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I didn't necessarily 'choose' to associate myself with these guys, they've mostly been coworkers or people I went to school with. I work in a male dominated field so I'm simply around more men by virtue of employment and education.

I know great women and men as well, but that doesn't discount the bad ones.
Working in a male dominated environment is a terrible aspect to judge all men based off of.

I worked as a CNA in nursing homes for 3 years. I had around 2 male coworkers in that entire period. The rest were females. If I based all my views on women according to the issues I had in there, I would probably turn gay.
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