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I'm saying FAR more men would cheat in this type of circumstance.
Women as well. If you get an big ugly women who is married to some slob because that's all she can get, then all of a sudden some sexy guy starts charming her off her feet, she won't cheat? She may very well not cheat, same goes for me. However, I would bet she would be more likely to cheat than if hot sexy men WEREN'T throwing themselves at her.
I have had many really attractive men ask me out, throwing themselves at me if you will, while in a relationship, but said no politely without the slightest temptation to do anything else. It's easy for me. Especially because I know those guys asking me out are after one thing: sex. I think you need a really high sex drive to be a cheater. I am happy with just one penis. Mental affection is much more important than physical affection for me. I think that's probably true much more for women than men.
-following hot girls on Twitter who live in your city, I think is not faithful.
-paying girls to take their clothes off on cam for you is NOT faithful.
-going on strictly platonic section of Craigslist to look for attractive girls to hang out with 'platonically' is not faithful.
-specifically going to get an 'erotic massage' is NOT faithful.
men, do you do these things? my boyfriend has done them. i have been completely faithful to him. is it too much, in reality, to expect the same level of loyalty from a man, considering that man is both attractive and has his life together financially (it seems the richer men get, and especially the more famous they are, the more likely they are to philander).
So drop the guy and move on, why is this such an issue if you feel all of these things he has done are unfaithful. Why are you still with him? Move on already and quit wasting time fussing about something that obviously he is not going to stop doing and you are not happy about.
Include yourself in the whole mental affection is more important group. Mental, physical and emotional affection are all equally important in a good balanced relationship.
Just to clarify, its not all women who are obese and have several kids, just the ones in Oklahoma that I've seen/met. There are very few exceptions, but there are some. I also don't say all women are horrible, just their dating habits, lol.
It's so weird how pretty much everyone is obese in Oklahoma! I visited there once and really felt odd walking around Wal-mart not being fat.
I have had many really attractive men ask me out, throwing themselves at me if you will, while in a relationship, but said no politely without the slightest temptation to do anything else. It's easy for me. Especially because I know those guys asking me out are after one thing: sex. I think you need a really high sex drive to be a cheater. I am happy with just one penis. Mental affection is much more important than physical affection for me. I think that's probably true much more for women than men.
Well sometimes, as in your case, it has less to do with the size of their penis and looks, and more to do with the size of their wallet.
It's about priorities. Yours is money so dont complain when he's lacking in the fidelity department.
Oh, brother. You think following someone in Twitter is cheating? So what about all of the friends on his Facebook? Surely he has some pretty friends on there, too.
Paying girls to take their clothes off on cam is live porn, no worse than going to a strip club. That's not cheating, either.
The Craigslist thing means he probably is cheating, though.
And an erotic massage is definitely cheating.
The first two are hypersensitivity on your part, but the last two have me wondering why you still call him your boyfriend. I'd have dumped his arse.
Hypersensitivity my arse. He has talked to his buddies about how much he wants to have sex and other similar things about many of those attractive girls on his Facebook. He also contacted hot girls on Reddit asking if they want to meet up after seeing the nude pics they posted. And favorited various hot pictures posted by those girls on Twitter, who live in his city, letting them know he wants to have sex with them. Like I said, it's not cheating, but it sure is heading in that direction and not the behavior of a man who respects and is loyal to his girlfriend. If you think this is all fine, I think you should be okay with him actually having sex with them in real life because that's what it's leading up to.
Paying girls to take their clothes off on cam is a cheating substitute. It is very personal. If a man has an urge to have that sort of sexual interaction, often showing her his penis on cam and getting feedback on it, that's not faithful behavior in the slightest. I don't think any self-respecting woman should tolerate a man who spends huge sums of money on cyber prostitution.
95% of highly eligible men or women will cheat. If they're ugly, they'll probably be faithful. I've dated many attractive women and almost all of them were seeing multiple guys at once. They refer to them as "friends". hahah, I'm not dumb -- I know what "friend" means. Any beautiful woman will have hundreds or thousands of options -- so she WILL cheat. I pre-empt their cheating by cheating on them first. That's how you level the playing field.
One of the girls I'm dating showed me her facebook. She gets 500 friend requests per week from strangers, almost all men. I'm not kidding: 500!!! You think girls like her will stay faithful when they get thousands of guys hitting on them?
-following hot girls on Twitter who live in your city, I think is not faithful.
-paying girls to take their clothes off on cam for you is NOT faithful.
-going on strictly platonic section of Craigslist to look for attractive girls to hang out with 'platonically' is not faithful.
-specifically going to get an 'erotic massage' is NOT faithful.
men, do you do these things? my boyfriend has done them. i have been completely faithful to him. is it too much, in reality, to expect the same level of loyalty from a man, considering that man is both attractive and has his life together financially (it seems the richer men get, and especially the more famous they are, the more likely they are to philander).
If I was with a man that did even one of those things, our relationship would be over.
What if they were just men you knew? Coworkers, friends, relatives etc.? Nearly every single man I've ever come in contact with has admitted to cheating at least once.
I think most people of either gender will cheat. I don't believe that humans are "meant" to be monogamous. I feel that many people are in monogamous relationships out of social expectation.
I think most people of either gender will cheat. I don't believe that humans are "meant" to be monogamous. I feel that many people are in monogamous relationships out of social expectation.
Some of us still believe in love.
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