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Well, not all, thankfully. My BF is 9+ years younger than I am, and he has always found older women more appealing. He said he just finds them sexier - smarter, no "bimbo-itus", and they typically are much more confident sexually and otherwise. That doesn't mean he doesn't look at younger women...sure he does! He's not dead.
First time I ever had sex was absolutely amazing. I had a few drinks so I was able to go for 25-30 minutes. It was so great and she was equally satisfied (just judging by her reactions)
You can be very good at sex the first time you do it too
That has more to do with the difference between the way men and women experience sex than with you just having amazing prowess. Men are pretty much guaranteed an orgasm every time, whereas it takes longer for women to figure out what works for them. Honestly, I don't know of any women who say that their first time was "absolutely amazing." Was it sweet or intimate or fun? Sure. Was it the best sex they ever had? Not a chance.
My preferences don't seem to be changing as I age. Still attracted to the same age range I was attracted to when I was 20. So I am fairly certain I will be one of those 50 year olds who only dates 20 yr olds one day.
Men in their 40s and 50s who consistently date much younger women often have power and control issues. Sure, they like sex with nubile young bodies. But they also want partners they deem less savvy, less experienced about life and easier to manipulate.
Frankly, in my experience (am I 44), it is almost always the men who approach the women, not vice versa.
I'm starting to think that you really don't like other guys. Seriously.
If a dude wants to and can think younger and he's happy than at the end of the day that's all that should matter. All this talk about how pathetic it is and how these guys are not all mentally there speak more about those who make such claims then the men they are speaking about.
I'm starting to think that you really don't like other guys. Seriously.
If a dude wants to and can think younger and he's happy than at the end of the day that's all that should matter. All this talk about how pathetic it is and how these guys are not all mentally there speak more about those who make such claims then the men they are speaking about.
I don't dislike other guys. I am just calling it like I see it. What can I do? Pretend I don't see what is right there in front me out of deference to some Man Code? Sorry, but I prefer to be honest...
There seems to be some kind of bizarre support for this kind of arrangement, and that is 50yr old + men, with 20 something girlfriends.
And here I am talking about regular guys being seriously in love with these girls, showering them with cash and gifts with no regard to the future, blinded by love and stupidity.
And how about the kids' inheritances, snatched away by an outsider - now that is just wrong!
Isn't this just pathetic?
Now, I can understand the sex thing, for sure, - but to go Full Monty , head over heels in 'love' with a bimbo that's only after your cash - well how sad is that?
And why do some of you lot stand up for this fraud and sham?
You have to determine if she really loves you (not you personally) or she's after your cash. If you can "Afford" it, why not? You can't take the money with you to the after life.
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My BF is 9+ years younger than I am, and he has always found older women more appealing. He said he just finds them sexier - smarter, no "bimbo-itus", and they typically are much more confident sexually and otherwise. That doesn't mean he doesn't look at younger women...sure he does! He's not dead. 
