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Originally Posted by Ascension2012
Yes, its been this way from the very beginning, but i think intensified equaly with our relationship becoming more and more serious. Its really draining, but i wouldnt want to walk away from otherwise a great thing. The odd thing is, that she says she knows ive been loyal to her throughout...
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I think I'd have to have a serious and stern conversation with her about her trust issues. Pointing out that you have NOT cheated on her or given her reason to not trust you. AND I'd also be stern about your facebook page, and IF she's snooping on your phone, etc.
I'm not sure I'd offer an ultimatum...because I don't see how an ultimatum is going to inspire trust...but tell her what you're telling us.
Her mistrust is exhausting and draining, and getting in the way of a loving relationship, and that it's uncalled for and unwarranted.
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