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Old 07-05-2013, 11:53 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Would it be possible to start a drinking game on the relationships forum where every mention of "shaming" is equal to AT LEAST one shot? Good God, retire the term, already.
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Old 07-06-2013, 12:28 AM
 
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I think guys are more angry at women players than women are at guy players. Because men think they should be the only ones allowed to be players. There's a huge male privilege mindset.
male priviledge/? when its ultimately, on the female if she consents or not, to have sex,,

you cant have it both ways....females ultimately, decide whether sex will happen-
you cant be consenting, then bash the male for being the consentee
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Old 07-06-2013, 01:31 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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male priviledge/? when its ultimately, on the female if she consents or not, to have sex,,

you cant have it both ways....females ultimately, decide whether sex will happen-
you cant be consenting, then bash the male for being the consentee
You have to admit, though, it's men who brag about being players, and congratulate each other. If a woman bests them at that game, they're not happy campers. They trash her. They don't want women to be players. That's a title men reserve for themselves and each other. No girls allowed in that clubhouse. That's the epitome of male privilege.
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Old 07-06-2013, 01:44 AM
 
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You have to admit, though, it's men who brag about being players, and congratulate each other. If a woman bests them at that game, they're not happy campers. They trash her. They don't want women to be players. That's a title men reserve for themselves and each other. No girls allowed in that clubhouse. That's the epitome of male privilege.
Male privilege? What are you on about? I don't believe you. There are far better things in society which men dominate. I'm not sure men really could give a damn about a woman who likes to sleep around. I sure as heck don't.
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Old 07-06-2013, 01:45 AM
 
Location: socal baby
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You have to admit, though, it's men who brag about being players, and congratulate each other. If a woman bests them at that game, they're not happy campers. They trash her. They don't want women to be players. That's a title men reserve for themselves and each other. No girls allowed in that clubhouse. That's the epitome of male privilege.
have no shame. those parts need to be used regularly. gotta take care of hommie
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Old 07-06-2013, 01:46 AM
 
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Male privilege? What are you on about? I don't believe you. There are far better things in society which men dominate. I'm not sure men really could give a damn about a woman who likes to sleep around. I sure as heck don't.
Good for you, Y-J! I'm just going by some of the reactions we had here to a female "player" who posted here some time ago. Pretty surprising reactions.
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Old 07-06-2013, 01:49 AM
 
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Good for you, Y-J! I'm just going by some of the reactions we had here to a female "player" who posted here some time ago. Pretty surprising reactions.
I doubt most men on CD are players. A true "player" keeps to his own business for his "game" requires his undivided attention. Just a theory. I don't proclaim to be a player at all but I've had many sexual conquests and FWB at overlapping periods.
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Old 07-06-2013, 01:51 AM
 
Location: socal baby
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I doubt most men on CD are players. A true "player" keeps to his own business for his "game" requires his undivided attention. Just a theory. I don't proclaim to be a player at all but I've had many sexual conquests and FWB at overlapping periods.
yes, must stay focused at all times. passion knows no foe,
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Old 07-06-2013, 01:59 AM
 
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You have to admit, though, it's men who brag about being players, and congratulate each other. If a woman bests them at that game, they're not happy campers. They trash her. They don't want women to be players. That's a title men reserve for themselves and each other. No girls allowed in that clubhouse. That's the epitome of male privilege.
most of the bragging comes from b.s. and insecure men...
i.ve never heard mucch about men bragging,,, no one would believe them anyways..

as for active women...i dont judge harshly at all, actually i find women to severely judge and label other women in this light, as easy, or ho's

the male players or *****-dogs are no longer lionized or glorified.... other guys ,,are thinking they have std's ,, or crabs-stay away!!
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Old 07-06-2013, 02:01 AM
 
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I doubt most men on CD are players. A true "player" keeps to his own business for his "game" requires his undivided attention. Just a theory. I don't proclaim to be a player at all but I've had many sexual conquests and FWB at overlapping periods.
this is true


like most areas in life,,,the more someone is bragging,,the less you believe
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