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Old 07-08-2013, 02:45 PM
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FWB sounds a little better if it is suggested in a one on one conversation instead online in her inbox


Guys should realize that by offering that in her inbox online he comes off as a FREAK

 
Old 07-08-2013, 02:46 PM
 
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FWB sounds a little better if it is suggested in a one on one conversation instead online in her inbox


Guys should realize that by offering that in her inbox online he comes off as a FREAK
Yeah, string her along and waste HER time and then spring it on her that you only want to screw her and leave.

That'll work out really well, I'm sure.
 
Old 07-08-2013, 03:14 PM
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Yeah, string her along and waste HER time and then spring it on her that you only want to screw her and leave.

That'll work out really well, I'm sure.

Not many women will turn down being intimate with a guy who is nice, funny, attractive, and able to hold a conversation
 
Old 07-08-2013, 03:15 PM
 
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Not many women will turn down being intimate with a guy who is nice and attractive
If they're looking for something long term they will.

It wouldn't be an issue whatsoever for me to turn down a guy who just wants to be 'intimate'.
 
Old 07-08-2013, 03:38 PM
 
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Women can have sex with practically whoever they want and they don't like it because of the objectifying nature of the men who want it from them. These same women get mad at the guys who they chase after that choose to sleep with the girls that are more attractive than they are. All because he has a choice? You ladies have a choice too you know.

Gotta wonder, would the same ladies on this forum here be as quiet if the guy on the bottom of his profile stated that he's not looking for an overweight woman or a lesser attractive woman because he has enough of those ladies he can get in his life or as friends in his life?

I guess there must be a good chunk of women on CD who get a ton of requests for just sex in their online profiles and they hate it? They have enough male friends who they can have sex with but are looking to find the perfect man for that perfect dance on that perfect day?

Sounds delusional and hypocritical to me, especially if she's going on-line to look for it while playing stupid to the institution that is online dating?
As an experiment last year, I created a profile. I got some model pics, but my height as 6'2, had a pic of Mercedes and a large house. On the profile I said "If you're fat, have a stomach, have kids, are ugly, or aren't into having sex by at least the third date, do not bother contacting me".

In one week, I received close to 120 messages telling me how much of a shallow jerk I was, how my penis should be put in a meat grinder and that I should be ashamed for only looking at physical qualities. One woman told me I was the reason why girls cry themselves to sleep at night and have body issues.

I wanted to spit at my monitor. These same women wouldn't likely look at a guy under 5'8, makes less than $60K, lives at home with his mother, is balding, or has some other flaw.

Double standard indeed.
 
Old 07-08-2013, 04:02 PM
 
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It helped that.s for sure but I still got a lot of rather interesting photos of the male anatomy. I would share some of the photos with friends and we would laugh.
That's the main reason I won't give out my number until a face-to-face meeting is arranged, and even then it's usually done when confirming the date/time. I've exchanged numbers with a few guys and almost immediately get pictures of genitals.
 
Old 07-08-2013, 05:07 PM
 
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That's the main reason I won't give out my number until a face-to-face meeting is arranged, and even then it's usually done when confirming the date/time. I've exchanged numbers with a few guys and almost immediately get pictures of genitals.

 
Old 07-08-2013, 05:13 PM
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If they're looking for something long term they will.

It wouldn't be an issue whatsoever for me to turn down a guy who just wants to be 'intimate'.

How come a intimate moment can't turn into something long term?
 
Old 07-08-2013, 05:15 PM
 
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How come a intimate moment can't turn into something long term?
I'm going by my personal past experiences which show that 99% of men will move on after they 'get what they want'. It will rarely turn into anything more.
 
Old 07-08-2013, 05:43 PM
 
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That's the main reason I won't give out my number until a face-to-face meeting is arranged, and even then it's usually done when confirming the date/time. I've exchanged numbers with a few guys and almost immediately get pictures of genitals.
But it's great filter! Don't you want to know if the guy is that type before you spend 2 hours getting dressed?
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