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I think it's because I rarely get male attention and was basically told that 'beggers can't be choosers' that I tended to go for any guy that showed me even a little bit of attention. I guess I was starved for attention for a long time because most of my friends were getting married or hopping from relationship to relationship while I couldn't even get a date.
Yeah, that's exactly the kind of person scumsuckers look for and target .
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I'm a bit older now and far more comfortable with myself so I'm no longer like that.
I'm glad ))).
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I like giving people chances...and that usually backfires.
Yeah...me, I'm getting tired of the chances thing.
Yeah, that's exactly the kind of person scumsuckers look for and target .
I'm glad ))).
Yeah...me, I'm getting tired of the chances thing.
I've stopped with the chance stuff... if someone irritates me or does something that irks me, I'm over it immediately. I don't have room in my life for 'energy vampires' or mean people. I *may* have met someone but I'm keeping it fairly mum because I'm not sure it's going to go anywhere. So...we'll see.
I was out to dinner last night and this couple was at the table next to mine. Everything the girl ordered off the menu, the guy had something to say about it. He criticized everything she picked, and even rolled his eyes at the waitress while the girl was ordering, as if to say "Can you believe she's ordering that?" He was really trying to make the girl feel and look like an idiot. I mean, what a jerk! It looked like they were on a date....maybe he was really nervous and insecure and trying to puff himself up? The whole thing made me sick.
Fingers crossed for you, that he is as awesome as he should be and appreciates you throughly .
I won't really know until next week...he has some school stuff to finish up, but his final is later this week and after that his schedule will open up since he'll officially be a graduate. I have a weird feeling he'll disappear because that's what my track record is thus far, but I've still got my fingers crossed. We met through a dating site and he hasn't logged in since we met so I think that may be a good sign
I was out to dinner last night and this couple was at the table next to mine. Everything the girl ordered off the menu, the guy had something to say about it. He criticized everything she picked, and even rolled his eyes at the waitress while the girl was ordering, as if to say "Can you believe she's ordering that?" He was really trying to make the girl feel and look like an idiot. I mean, what a jerk! It looked like they were on a date....maybe he was really nervous and insecure and trying to puff himself up? The whole thing made me sick.
Her problem, not yours. Be glad it's not you. People like that tend to be real jerks. I know believe me!!
I won't really know until next week...he has some school stuff to finish up, but his final is later this week and after that his schedule will open up since he'll officially be a graduate. I have a weird feeling he'll disappear because that's what my track record is thus far, but I've still got my fingers crossed. We met through a dating site and he hasn't logged in since we met so I think that may be a good sign
Sounds like a real idiot. Why not let the date/wife/Girlfriend enjoy her food? Life can be stressful and complicated enough as it is without this behavior.
Exactly what I was thinking. Why turn what could otherwise be a nice evening into a drama-fest? He seemed like he was desperate for some sort of power over her. Like he wanted to dominate the interaction no matter what.
Even if she was overweight that was no reason to be so insensitive to her feelings that he (or anyone) embarrassed her in front of others. Especially in an establishment were other couples are likely together in some lesser or greater romantic context out for a meal together.
From the context the OP put things in it sounded (if her depiction is accurate) like the guy had the upper hand. That he had the more dominate of the two personalities. If so, it could be possible the woman questions herself and has not felt that good or confident about herself for sometime. She would be feeling worse about herself after that dinner.
What would be more sad--or angering--is if she had been looking forward to that evening. You can beat people up in other ways besides hitting them. The invisible wounds can be the deepest and most scarring.
I don't care if she was a prostitute or a homeless prostitute. He could have given her that dinner and her place among others in that restaurant that evening.
She was not overweight in any way. The guy was just an arrogant d*ck. She seemed perfectly pleasant and normal. He came across as full of himself, which is always a cover for major insecurity.
My gf that lives with me just made fun of me for drinking a huge glass of milk. I dont think I'm fat. From what I've learned in this thread she is a bi*ch and now I need to dump her :/
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