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Hello, I know questions like this are almost always flamed upon, but I want to be clear that I am not trying to troll or making me feel good about myself. I have no reason to. I will not post a picture of myself, period. Once again, I have no reason to.
Anyway, I'm a 18 year old male. I always get stares from females be it when I'm walking, shopping or any daily activity, from the average looking to the very good-looking, everyday, everytime. I know this since everytime I get stared at (which is NOT a good feeling because I feel that my privacy is lost), I will look back with quite an annoyed look. 90% of the time, I was right -- they were staring at me. In my school, I have a lot of girls talking to me, and some of them likes to poke me in the arm or holding my hand suddenly. They would come near me and smile at me, commenting that I smell good or stuff like that. Of course I felt awkward, and after 3-4 years of experiencing such things with different girls, I am sure I am quite attractive.
On the other hand, my male classmates would notice me getting all the female company, of course. Soon, they began mocking and condescending me, trying to make me look bad especially in front of the females. I felt wronged since I know I did not do anything wrong at all, yet I was being treated in such a way.
My question is, how do I react when the guys treat me in such a way wrongfully? Is there a way to stop these? And how do I stop the stares and the girls from acting such a way? Once again, I do not want to sound like I'm bragging. For people who believe me, do help me. Thank you
The best you can do is ignore the stares and go on with your business. If they get out of hand, then you address it right a way.
You don't seem to enjoy the female attention, which is out of the ordinary. Do you like any of the girls?
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Hello, I know questions like this are almost always flamed upon, but I want to be clear that I am not trying to troll or making me feel good about myself. I have no reason to. I will not post a picture of myself, period. Once again, I have no reason to.
Anyway, I'm a 18 year old male. I always get stares from females be it when I'm walking, shopping or any daily activity, from the average looking to the very good-looking, everyday, everytime. I know this since everytime I get stared at (which is NOT a good feeling because I feel that my privacy is lost), I will look back with quite an annoyed look. 90% of the time, I was right -- they were staring at me. In my school, I have a lot of girls talking to me, and some of them likes to poke me in the arm or holding my hand suddenly. They would come near me and smile at me, commenting that I smell good or stuff like that. Of course I felt awkward, and after 3-4 years of experiencing such things with different girls, I am sure I am quite attractive.
On the other hand, my male classmates would notice me getting all the female company, of course. Soon, they began mocking and condescending me, trying to make me look bad especially in front of the females. I felt wronged since I know I did not do anything wrong at all, yet I was being treated in such a way.
My question is, how do I react when the guys treat me in such a way wrongfully? Is there a way to stop these? And how do I stop the stares and the girls from acting such a way? Once again, I do not want to sound like I'm bragging. For people who believe me, do help me. Thank you
You might be oriental if you wrote this.
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