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i apologize for the disparaging remarks. look at it this way. i follow this myself. assume that NO ladies at all in their 20's are interested in a male in his 40's.
then if by chance you DO run into one who IS interested, you'll be pleasantly surprised
Yes, young women flirt with older guys for practice and for mutual enjoyment. They do it because they are certain that you could never think they actually wanted you.
I am sorry to burst the bubbles of 40+ guys everywhere .
Well, I'm going to un-burst the bubble. When I was in my 20's and 30's, there were plenty of men in their 40's that I found very attractive and I went out with several of them. Forty is not old at all. Not saying they were all attractive, but neither were the men my own age.
The did all speak English though! No wait, there WAS that guy in Athens, Greece whose English skills I was able to overlook.
By the way is it better ask women out or ask her for a date. Out must not be date.
You should ask a woman if she would like to go to a specific place with you. Ask her to have dinner with you, or go to a concert, or to something you think you will both enjoy. Even if you want a friend with benefits, it is good to communicate clearly.
If you are only looking for a friend with benefits, it is ok to ask a woman if she wants to go to your place for a drink.
Or, you can ask the young women who flirt with you how to find a friend with benefits. They would enjoy explaining the rules to you.
EDIT: yes, I think the solution is definitely to get help from the younger women.
The best way to find out how a woman feels about you is to ask her out. What's the problem here?!
If it's that you don't want to ask her out, and just want sex..... I doubt that's going to work at all. If there was an answer to that, most guys would be doing it already.
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The best way to find out how a woman feels about you is to ask her out. What's the problem here?!
If it's that you don't want to ask her out, and just want sex..... I doubt that's going to work at all. If there was an answer to that, most guys would be doing it already.
I'm inclined to such solution after failure past night. If I can't ask out should not ask nothing. I know it have guys how can get laid without date ( Kramer ) but evidently not me.
The best way to find out how a woman feels about you is to ask her out. What's the problem here?!
If it's that you don't want to ask her out, and just want sex..... I doubt that's going to work at all. If there was an answer to that, most guys would be doing it already.
I'm surprised no one has not said that already lol..instead in typical cd forums fashion you get a lot of older ladies acting all bitter/mad/putting him down
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