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Old 07-16-2013, 03:06 PM
 
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That's how I weed out the boring Bobs.

Put it all out there and let them figure out if they want to stick around.
LOL...they have to earn my freak!
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Old 07-16-2013, 03:07 PM
 
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Nope. Just read a lot of erotic fiction by female authors when bored at work
50 Shades of Grey huh? LOL
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Old 07-16-2013, 03:10 PM
 
Location: Texas
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50 Shades of Grey huh? LOL
Well, I had to see what all the fuss was about...
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Old 07-16-2013, 03:15 PM
 
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Well, I had to see what all the fuss was about...
That is bubble gum literotica. I couldn't get through the first book.
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Old 07-16-2013, 03:20 PM
 
Location: Texas
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That is bubble gum literotica. I couldn't get through the first book.
I never actually picked up a copy. My post directed at Nila was a diversionary tactic and also a way to direct the conversation to more graphic sexual dialogue...

Yes, shame on me!
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Old 07-16-2013, 03:22 PM
 
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I never actually picked up a copy. My post directed at Nila was a diversionary tactic and also a way to direct the conversation to more graphic sexual dialogue...

Yes, shame on me!
Uhh huhh. Sure. LOL
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Old 07-16-2013, 03:24 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Uhh huhh. Sure. LOL
Well, I have browsed through the threads on CD regarding the book in question... The story seems pretty vanilla/stereotypical if you ask me
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Old 07-16-2013, 03:25 PM
 
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Well, I have browsed through the threads on CD regarding the book in question... The story seems pretty vanilla/stereotypical if you ask me
That and poorly written. I couldn't get past all the errors to actually focus on the story.
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Old 07-16-2013, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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That and poorly written. I couldn't get past all the errors to actually focus on the story.
I made it through the first book but didn't even try the second. I agree - it was so poorly written that I couldn't get past it.
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Old 07-16-2013, 03:40 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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This was stated in the crazy girls thread and I admit it shocked me. I have no sexual experience with women, only men, but I don't recall ever having to be told what to do. Sure , during some acts, encouragement and discussion over what feels best is natural, but that goes both ways, with both partners.

Do women really need to be told what to do, in your experience?

Please keep it PG 13.
I have been with more than the average number of women. It adds up when you get to be my age.

In my experience, no. Every one of them was experienced enough to know what they wanted. Some were better teachers, or guides, than others. Each one was different enough that it paid to listen and follow instructions to enhance the experience for both of us.

At the same time, i learned that i preferred being together with women who were/are as much into experiencing emotional intimacy (i did not say love) as they were physical intimacy, something i didn't know about myself at the start.

But I do very much like women who ask about what I want.

It's about learning and sharing, not being told what to do...except that some women really do enjoy being told what to do and they generally know how to do it!

As for new beginners (women), i lack experience.
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