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I've just learned (I'm not that naïve and do have a way of finding out things) that she had a relationship starting way back in her sophomore year of HS and then 3 others later on while I've been waiting the whole time. The fact that she already knows this makes me mad, as if she led me on purpose so she can get me at some point.
I'm considering dumping her. I've been waiting for 21 years for that special girl, the one I would consider getting married in the near future, but with that new revelation it's like I wasted some time (2 months exactly).
Or should I just give up on finding a 18-22 year-old virgin girl? Why is it so hard to find her?
The mark of the troll is strong with this one, but nonetheles.....shes a liar and will lie in the future about things that require, eeeek, responsibility and eeewwwww, consequences. Leave or hate your life always wondering
I would also like to add that the first time for a woman is usually not magical. It's usually painful. And awkward.
I know but I'm sure she'll get better after a couple times.
I think I've made up my mind and will not reconsider. This is something I can't handle at all, not even with all her other good qualities. I will proceed on finding a Christian virgin woman if possible. I'm sure there are still many of those women out there. I won't mind waiting till marriage or close to the wedding but will not lose it very early.
I know but I'm sure she'll get better after a couple times.
I think I've made up my mind and will not reconsider. This is something I can't handle at all, not even with all her other good qualities. I will proceed on finding a Christian virgin woman if possible. I'm sure there are still many of those women out there. I won't mind waiting till marriage or close to the wedding but will not lose it very early.
And of course, you, yourself are a virgin. You wouldn't expect a virgin woman to want to be with a non-virgin man, right?
You're right about that. If it was a virgin woman that only wanted a virgin man and he wasn't a virgin, she can dump him too.
One thing I'm not is those hypocrites that go to bars scoring with hookers and still want a virgin girl. Now that doesn't make sense. In my situation, I want what I am.
I know but I'm sure she'll get better after a couple times.
I think I've made up my mind and will not reconsider. This is something I can't handle at all, not even with all her other good qualities. I will proceed on finding a Christian virgin woman if possible. I'm sure there are still many of those women out there. I won't mind waiting till marriage or close to the wedding but will not lose it very early.
It might get better - it might not. My point is that it seems you have built up this idea in your head that you can only have a good relationship with someone if you both lose your virginity to each other. That seems to trump all other aspects of the relationship. And that's a recipe for disaster. If you need to find a Christian virgin in order to fulfill some ideal in your head - that's fine - but don't overlook everything else in your quest for a magical event that is more likely to be painful and awkward.
I know but I'm sure she'll get better after a couple times.
I think I've made up my mind and will not reconsider. This is something I can't handle at all, not even with all her other good qualities. I will proceed on finding a Christian virgin woman if possible. I'm sure there are still many of those women out there. I won't mind waiting till marriage or close to the wedding but will not lose it very early.
And what if you never get 'better' and she leaves you?
I just don't get the cult of virginity...my first time was horrible...and the few times after that were nothing to write home about either.
And what if you never get 'better' and she leaves you?
That can happen and it would be something I can't do anything about it. If it doesn't work out in the end, at least I'll always remembering losing it to another virgin and marrying her.
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Originally Posted by JetJockey
I just don't get the cult of virginity...my first time was horrible...and the few times after that were nothing to write home about either.
I guess it's just me being romantic about it. Even though we will be totally clueless, that's the whole point. We would be able to slowly learn together.
And what if you never get 'better' and she leaves you?
I just don't get the cult of virginity...my first time was horrible...and the few times after that were nothing to write home about either.
I was a champion contender right off the bat. I think I finished my first time in under a minute.
(funny thing is I remember wondering if I was good or not. Hahahahahaahaha) <--true story!
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