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I never make a girl wait. I thinking you're missing the point of what others were saying...The successful man will try to have sex every time they're on a date, if she has sex on the first date, some men may find that to be an automatic dis-qualifier for a wife.
Exactly. Generally, the younger single guys, (note, not ALL ) when they find out that a gal is willing, will go for it. Even if they are not interested in a relationship with her, not interested in even seeing her again, not even interested in knowing her name. Even if they are not really attracted to her. It doesn't matter. It's sex. Getting laid. Banging. Hittin' it. It's more biology than anything. When guys mature, that biology changes a bit...in some more than others, but it changes. Thank goodness!
Us gals...we don't have that same....thing...that same "gotta get my balls off" function. Like it or not, we ARE different. And THAT is why the man will always be chasing the gal.
Never ceases to amaze me why this topic befuddles so many people on this forum, over and over and over again, ad nauseum.
It's just the way we are all built. It's not rocket science.
I never make a girl wait. I thinking you're missing the point of what others were saying...The successful man will try to have sex every time they're on a date, if she has sex on the first date, some men may find that to be an automatic dis-qualifier for a wife.
I think you, and many of the guys here, are missing the point that many women have made.
Women wait to have sex, partly or mainly because that's what men need.
Many guys here have stated that they will not see a woman as wife material if she has sex too early. They need a woman to wait, or they cannot take her seriously. So she waits, because he needs that.
Waiting is a need that men have, at least as often as women.
So, guys, how long of a wait do you need before you can consider her marriage material?
Us gals...we don't have that same....thing...that same "gotta get my balls off" function. Like it or not, we ARE different. And THAT is why the man will always be chasing the gal.
I think it's mostly only women who use hormonal types of birth control who don't have that.
In 87% of women, hormones have the side effect of decreasing sex drive. After a few years, the woman starts to think that's normal.
Try some of the highly effective hormone-free types for a couple years and see what happens It usually takes about a year or two for your hormones to return to normal.
No later than the 3rd date, definitely not the first date. If I really like the gal, I don't push my advances. If I know I'm not interested in long term, I'll see how far I can go on the first date.
I will make her wait until my football team is out of the playoffs...which means beaing a Browns fan, that is by the 3rd of 4th week of the season...so not too long
I never pushed the subject of sex on a lady I considered a strong candidate for marriage, I wanted to know how she thought and what her values were and it is easier to think with a clear head unencumbered by emotional baggage that could be tied to sexual contact early on.
That said, the woman I married was divorced, and we did have a quick courting period where she moved in with me within a month of our first date.
I made up for that in my mind by delaying the decision to actually get married for 3 years after that to make sure I wasn't making a mistake that would haunt both of us. So we both knew the other well in an intellectual manner as well as simply physical.
I think it's mostly only women who use hormonal types of birth control who don't have that.
In 87% of women, hormones have the side effect of decreasing sex drive. After a few years, the woman starts to think that's normal.
Try some of the highly effective hormone-free types for a couple years and see what happens It usually takes about a year or two for your hormones to return to normal.
BC does decrease your sex drive, but even without, I can still wait to get to know the guy before jumping into bed and never sleep with anyone on the first date.
I think you, and many of the guys here, are missing the point that many women have made.
Women wait to have sex, partly or mainly because that's what men need.
Many guys here have stated that they will not see a woman as wife material if she has sex too early. They need a woman to wait, or they cannot take her seriously. So she waits, because he needs that.
Waiting is a need that men have, at least as often as women.
So, guys, how long of a wait do you need before you can consider her marriage material?
Hahaha! that's an interesting way to look at it. You could be right.
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It usually takes about a year or two for your hormones to return to normal.
