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Old 07-19-2013, 12:37 AM
 
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Chances are you're probably not too good with women. In other words, you got no game. Chances are you're either doing something that's putting them off, or you don't know a woman's signs of interest as much as you thought.

Which is fine but how does a woman know that I have no game without even talking to me? It's not like I'm some social recluse. I'm very friendly and outgoing in general



I was always under the impression that good looking guys who have no game still got plenty of opportunities...just couldn't always close the deal



What I am wondering is why I can't even seem to get to that first step of the opportunity in itself?
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Old 07-19-2013, 12:39 AM
 
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Then instead of being in disbelief, maybe you should work on it?

work on what? I work to improve myself as much as humanly possible every day in every way. Not that I'm perfect or anything, but I can't imagine how I can push myself any harder
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Old 07-19-2013, 12:41 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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work on what? I work to improve myself as much as humanly possible every day in every way. Not that I'm perfect or anything, but I can't imagine how I can push myself any harder
If you're happy with your life then you don't have to improve yourself, you're probably just not very good at talking to women. Work on that, not yourself.

From your other post, how could you know that a woman isn't attracted to you before you even talk to her?
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Old 07-19-2013, 12:43 AM
 
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From your other post, how could you know that a woman isn't attracted to you before you even talk to her?

I don't know but it's called a cold approach for a reason - you have absolutely no clue what you're going into. You could have a girl who is very interested in somebody like yourself, or far more likely, a girl who wants you to get the hell away as soon as possible



It's nice to get some sort of a sign of an approach being welcomed beforehand
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Old 07-19-2013, 12:53 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I don't know but it's called a cold approach for a reason - you have absolutely no clue what you're going into. You could have a girl who is very interested in somebody like yourself, or far more likely, a girl who wants you to get the hell away as soon as possible



It's nice to get some sort of a sign of an approach being welcomed beforehand

Yeah.... but it doesn't work like that lol

Talk to them and find out from there. Come on man, quit being a wuss. This whole post wreaks of loser talk, " or more likely uninterested" . psh.
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Old 07-19-2013, 01:03 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Join groups, get involved in activities that women are involved in. Have you tried that? It doesn't usually give instant results, but can over time. Have you tried chatting women up casually, as you come across them during your day? Most women would appreciate a good-looking guy being friendly with them.
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Old 07-19-2013, 01:06 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Talk to them and find out from there.
This. Just talk to them, like to pass the time in the check-out line or at the coffeeshop counter while waiting to order. Watch how they react. Gauge from there.
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Old 07-19-2013, 03:11 AM
 
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and women are so flabbergasted when men hire escorts lol. Who the hell wants to play this game for very long before you just want to get it on.
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Old 07-19-2013, 03:52 AM
 
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I ask this because I'm a guy who has always received compliments for being handsome (sometimes even from random strange seemingly straight man). Overall I've very happy with my appearance...yet I don't even seem to get any women who are interested in being approached by me... I've read some stuff on female signs of interest and I don't ever receive any of those. I'm not even necessarily talking about being approached (which would nice but perhaps unrealistic), but just even signs of interest would be awesome


How is this possible? I mean I'm not an arrogant or mean individual. I just go out to have fun with my friends. I'm well dressed. I've read stuff on proper posture so I know I carry myself with good body language
As one girl have said here, women don't have to do man's job
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Old 07-19-2013, 03:57 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Ok every women isn't the same but signs that she likes you.

-She talks to you
-She laughs and smiles
-She winks at you.
-She includes you.
-She finds you funny
-She touches your arm or shoulder as she talks to you.
-She gets closer to you while standing or sitting.
-She ask a lot of questions.
-She fumbles over words when she talks to you.
-She dresses real nice when your around
-She will ask you to dance
-She listens and remembers what you said.
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