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Old 07-19-2013, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Now I don't know if that's normal or anything, but let me explain.. from my experience, if you talk to an experienced girl and make her your gf, it seems like she's done it all, and ready to settle down in a sense. (Snip meaning shes slept with more than 10 guys but is already out of that phase of sleeping around). She really has little reason to cheat on you because shes had mostly all those experiences sexually anyway. An innocent girl on the other hand, she is a VERY CURIOUS ONE! Theres a chance she could fall for temptation and since she hasn't had THAT MUCH experience to begin with, she's more likely to fall on that temptation. Now again this is from experience, I wouldn't expect a lot of people to agree with me, but what are your thoughts??

Mod note: inappropriate terminology has been deleted or substituted in this post and ones following.

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Old 07-19-2013, 12:03 PM
 
Location: California
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How do you know the girl who's had all those experiences isn't going to get bored a little bit down the road and will cheat anyway? She doesn't have to be curious, she KNOWS what she is missing out there.
 
Old 07-19-2013, 12:07 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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10 people isn't all that much........ especially as you get older.......

Are we still calling women that have had more than 10 a Snip. these days?????

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Old 07-19-2013, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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If you want to stay stuck in the Madonna/***** stereotype mindset, good luck getting ANY woman.
 
Old 07-19-2013, 12:08 PM
 
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I agree with the OP.

A person with experience knows when she is ready to settle down and be 100% monogamous. A person without experience doesn't.

My ex struggled with this. He had had only two partners before me, both very long term relationships. It bothered him that he had never had a ONS.
 
Old 07-19-2013, 12:09 PM
 
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If you want to stay stuck in the Madonna/***** stereotype mindset, good luck getting ANY woman.
True 'nuff.
 
Old 07-19-2013, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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10 people isn't all that much........ especially as you get older.......

Are we still calling women that have had more than 10 a Snip. these days?????
I would hope not.

Another thing .., why so judgy, OP?

Your terminology is your problem. I mean who's to say an experienced girl isn't just a highly skilled lover? Why the negative connotation?

Maybe she slept with "so many" guys because she likes sex. A crime? According to you, yes. If she does, though, she's not likely to exit that "phase."

Open your mind, honey.

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Old 07-19-2013, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I would hope not.

Another thing .., why so judgy, OP?

Your terminology is your problem. I mean who's to say an experienced girl isn't just a highly skilled lover? Why the negative connotation?

Maybe she slept with "so many" guys because she likes sex. A crime? According to you, yes. If she does, though, she's not likely to exit that "phase."

Open your mind, honey.

woah woah woah! i didn't mean Snip. in a bad way! I was meaning it in a sense as someone that has been sexually experienced, no one said anything negative about it, the term Snip. was used for lack of a better term and no 10 is not a lot

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Old 07-19-2013, 12:24 PM
 
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Well like someone pointed out the Snip. risks getting bored easily...
but I think there is a big difference betwen a Snip. and a sexually experienced woman.

I know girls who'll drink 2 glasses of wine blame that and go do freaken anyone/thing that presented itself to them, that is a Snip. to me. Think of the kind of girl you reluctantly consider to be your company for the night when the one you really wanted turned you down, because while she's not your top choice she's still better than porn...

Then I know girls who's been with a lot of men, but they carry themselves well about it, they take ownership over it and that's fine in my eyes.

I will agree that having a woman who has a bit more experience can be good, she's seen the cirkus, so to speak...so she's more likely to be past that and want something more lasting...

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Old 07-19-2013, 12:26 PM
 
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It's a common misconception that girls who have had a lot of sexual partners are more prone to cheat/get bored etc.
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