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You have me nailed down to a tee. I dont small talk, unless it is something I know, otherwise I take things too seriously.
I think a couple of glasses of wine is what you need. You need to shut off your brain for awhile. I used to over think things as well and sex is one of those things where being too thoughtful can ruin everything pretty quickly.
I think a couple of glasses of wine is what you need. You need to shut off your brain for awhile. I used to over think things as well and sex is one of those things where being too thoughtful can ruin everything pretty quickly.
I know what its like to overthink things too. I used to do it constantly. I still do it to a much lesser extent and when I do I catch myself and tell myself to stop it. The thing I do this most over is approaching women. If I found one that appeared inviting to the idea I would certainly approach. But since this is never the case I will never wantonly violate a woman's personal space.
We are all kinds of creatures us humans. I can't imagine picking on someone for making choices. Share it here and then get told they are doing something wrong. Not everyone needs therapy.
Exactly, It's like i said earlier.
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I have to wonder why the OP made this thread. Every thread about older guys who are virgins usually turns into a "kick 'em while they're down" session. Not exactly what a 40 year old virgin needs. this horse has been beaten to death.
For some reason losing it to a paid escort just doesn't count. Technically you lose the V-card. But it's totally different than losing it the traditional way..
Getting back to the original question... yes, I have known both women and men who were over 40 and never had sex. I've read that 5% or more of the population never has sex in their entire lives, so that's millions and millions of people right there. And lots of people have little sex drive (men included, I have known some).
Admittedly, the women I've known who were old virgins were total b----es and incredibly unpleasant to be around. I work with two right now who openly say they are virgins. Miserable women. Most men do not advertise their virginity, but I've had a couple of male acquaintances who never had sex. One is a religious nut who thinks having sex before marriage is a "sin," and he's never been married. The other just has a small sex drive and couldn't be bothered (his words, not mine).
If a dude hasn't lost his virginity past a certain age, the chances of it happening declines every year. We just need to accept the fact that not everyone will get to mate. Most of our ancestors are female. Alot of males didn't get to have sex or procreate back then. It's just a continuation of a trend that has always existed. We need to stop this "there's someone for everyone" Crap Nope. Some guys get 5 girls, some guys get none. Thus is life
For some reason losing it to a paid escort just doesn't count. Technically you lose the V-card. But it's totally different than losing it the traditional way..
may not count to you, but a few escorts count among the best hook ups ive had in my life. i lost my virginity to another virgin in my junior year in high school, with a lot of base hits before the home run. Losing my virginity was like the first time i drank a beer, you got to get use to the flavor before you can really enjoy it.
If a dude hasn't lost his virginity past a certain age, the chances of it happening declines every year. We just need to accept the fact that not everyone will get to mate. Most of our ancestors are female. Alot of males didn't get to have sex or procreate back then. It's just a continuation of a trend that has always existed. We need to stop this "there's someone for everyone" Crap Nope. Some guys get 5 girls, some guys get none. Thus is life
If a dude hasn't lost his virginity past a certain age, the chances of it happening declines every year. We just need to accept the fact that not everyone will get to mate. Most of our ancestors are female. Alot of males didn't get to have sex or procreate back then. It's just a continuation of a trend that has always existed. We need to stop this "there's someone for everyone" Crap Nope. Some guys get 5 girls, some guys get none. Thus is life
There is someone for everyone, but they don't always cross paths or put in the effort to find them.
Just reading some threads below and some people have quoted from that popular movie about the 40 y/o virgin.
In reality do you know any virgins 40 years and older? Was it their choice?
I know 2 male virgins over 40 and it's not by their choice.
Yes, it's an assumption as I've known him for 17 years and he's never had a gf or a woman with him ever. He's a quiet guy and is friend zoned constantly. He's got the "he's such a nice guy" syndrome.
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