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View Poll Results: Have you ever been attracted to a friend?
Yes, I'm a male, didn't say anything 9 31.03%
Yes, I'm a female, didn't say anything 2 6.90%
Yes, I'm a male, said/did something, was rejected 5 17.24%
Yes, I'm a female, said/did something, was rejected 2 6.90%
Yes, I'm a male, said/did something, wasn't rejected 5 17.24%
Yes, I'm a female, said/did something, wasn't rejected 1 3.45%
No 5 17.24%
Voters: 29. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 07-20-2013, 08:20 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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these are the details i was looking for... you must remember
I'm not sure what you mean. Details about sexual tension? I mean - sexual tension is sexual tension.
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Old 07-20-2013, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Pueblo - Colorado's Second City
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I was in a unique situation and in a bad way. Not only did I fall for a friend but he led me on even telling me he was gay when he was 100% straight. Once I figured it out I stopped talking to him.
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Old 07-20-2013, 08:24 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I was in a unique situation and in a bad way. Not only did I fall for a friend but he led me on even telling me he was gay when he was 100% straight. Once I figured it out I stopped talking to him.
Why would anyone do that??? That's awful!!!
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Old 07-20-2013, 08:26 PM
 
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I'm not sure what you mean. Details about sexual tension? I mean - sexual tension is sexual tension.
like how did that play out? how did you know? what did they do or say?
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Old 07-20-2013, 08:28 PM
 
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I was in a unique situation and in a bad way. Not only did I fall for a friend but he led me on even telling me he was gay when he was 100% straight. Once I figured it out I stopped talking to him.
what a weirdo, you should have made out with him as revenge
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Old 07-20-2013, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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like how did that play out? how did you know? what did they do or say?
I don't know - there was just sexual tension. It was obvious. I think some people are better at picking up on these things than others. By the time we got to kissing - the tension was so thick you could cut it with a knife. I'm not sure how else to explain it.
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Old 07-20-2013, 08:44 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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I can only say one thing if you like a woman and she is your friend tell her. Don't hesitate because it can cost you dearly.
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Old 07-20-2013, 08:48 PM
 
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I don't know - there was just sexual tension. It was obvious. I think some people are better at picking up on these things than others. By the time we got to kissing - the tension was so thick you could cut it with a knife. I'm not sure how else to explain it.
i know what you're saying. i'm seeing the same thing, but trying to ignore it.
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Old 07-20-2013, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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i know what you're saying. i'm seeing the same thing, but trying to ignore it.
Well, I only ignored it when I didn't feel the same way. Then again, then it wasn't so much sexual tension as just me knowing that someone had feelings for me.
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Old 07-20-2013, 09:06 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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Several times. I didn't mention it at the time, but I did tell one girl after the fact (we were actually best friends for a while). She said, "Why didn't you tell me then?!?!" And I said, "Because pretty much the entire time you were always in relationships already, so all it would have done is ended a friendship." And she admitted that was true. The others I never told for that very reason; nothing would have come from it except I would have lost a friend. Eventually I learned that once I started developing feelings for a friend, the best course of action was to just let the friendship gradually die down. It's too painful to remain friends, but you also don't want to part on bad terms.
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