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I will be turning 30 in one month, I am 5'1". It's sad because even most school children are taller than me(including teenage girls) and I never had the experience of going out on a date, going on a dance or having fun like my other friends do. I have a great job and make 6 figures, am quite well versed in a multitude of subjects and am very eloquent in the way I speak etc. However, I never had a girlfriend or an intimate sexual experience.
I have been reflecting on my life for the past few days as I am approaching 30. Is being a virgin at 30 years old quite unnatural and unheard of? Most of my friends are all married or settled with women in life and I find myself being more and more lonely in this world. I have also been losing hope that I would ever find someone that could accept me for me being vertically challenged. I have a decent body, workout, eat healthy etc but there's nothing I can do about my height.
I am not complaining here about anything, I understand why most women wouldn't want to date someone as short as I am and I don't blame them for it. But I just don't know what to make of my life, whether to still harbor hope of having a relationship and a normal family life or just reconcile myself to living alone for the rest of my life.
You can be short and still be alpha. You just need a really magnetic personality. And you must stand out. I think you should work on things that can be changed, like your mindset. I've seen short brahs get a lot of women simply because they were the guy everyone wanted to be around. Be genetically different, brah.
Taylor you seem like a very intelligent guy, a nice guy. You will find someone. Yes its going to be difficult but as a matter of fact I have a good friend who is 5'3", similar situation, eventually got ballsy and faked his confidence with women and it payed off. Hes now married and his wife is about 4'11". They've got 2 kids.
Taylor you seem like a very intelligent guy, a nice guy. You will find someone. Yes its going to be difficult but as a matter of fact I have a good friend who is 5'3", similar situation, eventually got ballsy and faked his confidence with women and it payed off. Hes now married and his wife is about 4'11". They've got 2 kids.
What's funny is that many here will probably tell you that you can't fake confidence. They'll also say that women can tell when it's not genuine.
I've said this before and I'll say it again - then you should be going after short women. I am under 5' and I prefer men who are closer to my height rather than further away.
I personally know several short men and they are all married or in relationships.
I will be turning 30 in one month, I am 5'1". It's sad because even most school children are taller than me(including teenage girls) and I never had the experience of going out on a date, going on a dance or having fun like my other friends do. I have a great job and make 6 figures, am quite well versed in a multitude of subjects and am very eloquent in the way I speak etc. However, I never had a girlfriend or an intimate sexual experience.
I have been reflecting on my life for the past few days as I am approaching 30. Is being a virgin at 30 years old quite unnatural and unheard of? Most of my friends are all married or settled with women in life and I find myself being more and more lonely in this world. I have also been losing hope that I would ever find someone that could accept me for me being vertically challenged. I have a decent body, workout, eat healthy etc but there's nothing I can do about my height.
I am not complaining here about anything, I understand why most women wouldn't want to date someone as short as I am and I don't blame them for it. But I just don't know what to make of my life, whether to still harbor hope of having a relationship and a normal family life or just reconcile myself to living alone for the rest of my life.
You're 5'1...Are you white? If so you could probably go on dates with Asian women and maybe even cultivate a family. If you're Asian or Indian, look outside of dating/relationships for happiness. Cultivate a hobby
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