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Old 07-22-2013, 10:00 AM
 
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She is not going to forgive you and trust that you will be different in the future. She knows people don't change that rapidly.

Get a therapist, and spend the years it will take to change in a way that will stick.
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Old 07-22-2013, 10:18 AM
 
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Do you care about the happiness of your soul mate or is it all about you? What if she decided you are NOT her soul mate? Would you still try so hard to get her back?
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Old 07-22-2013, 11:48 AM
 
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Take this as a lesson, and move on. She needs someone she can trust. You've shown her that she cannot trust you.
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Old 07-22-2013, 11:56 AM
 
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You may feel she's your "soulmate", but if she doesn't agree then there is no chance this will ever work out.

She appears to have made up her mind to move on.

The best you can do is learn this very valuable lesson and never make these same mistakes again.
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